The Very Real Problem of Fear

One hot day in July, a farmer sat lazily on the porch of his shack, whittling on a piece of wood. A neighbor dropped by for a visit and asked him, “Did you get your cotton harvested yet?” Without looking up from his whittling, the farmer answered, “Didn’t plant none. ‘Fraid of the boil weevil.” The neighbor nodded his head understandingly and said, “Yes, those little insects can sure bankrupt a man by laying waste to a good field of cotton. I can’t say as I blame you.”

Continuing his search for grounds of conversation, the neighbor tried again. “So, have you got a good stand of corn?” he asked. The farmer, still looking down at his whittling, said, “Didn’t plant no corn neither. ‘Fraid of drought.” Again, the neighbor nodded his head knowingly and said, “I can’t blame you there. This weather has gotten so crazy that nobody can tell if or when it’s going to rain.”

Now the neighbor was feeling embarrassed over his lack of knowledge about the man’s farm, but he decided to try one more time. Cautiously he said, “Well, if you didn’t plant any cotton or corn, I guess you planted potatoes. How are they doing? Does it look like you’re going to have a good harvest there?” But the farmer didn’t change his actions or his tone as he replied, “Ain’t got no taters neither. ‘Fraid of the tater bugs.” One more time the neighbor nodded his head in agreement as he said, “Yes, I hear those pesky beetles can ruin a whole field if they get in there good. And you don’t want that happening to you.”

By this time the neighbor was thoroughly ashamed of himself for not knowing more about the farmer’s fields, and so he figured it was time for some apologizing. He said to the farmer, “I beg your pardon for not keeping up with you better. I’ve just been so busy myself lately that I haven’t paid much attention to what’s been going on over here. So tell me, what did you plant this year?” The farmer, still not looking up from his whittling, dryly answered, “Nothin.’ I just played it safe.”

President Franklin Delano Roosevelt once famously told the American people, “The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.” At the time, America was in the throes of the Great Depression and people were running to their banks to withdraw all their money for fear they would lose it if the banks closed. Roosevelt was trying to curb that rising tide.

While I understand the need for the reassurance Roosevelt offered at that moment in history, the fact is that this world really can be a frightful place. All the reassuring words in the vocabulary won’t stop a job termination, an eviction notice, a bad medical diagnosis, a judge’s sentence, a catastrophic weather event, a terrorist act, etc. It’s like the little boy who got bit by a dog. His mother said, “Now son, if that dog hadn’t sensed fear in you, it wouldn’t have bitten you. I believe your real problem was your fear, not that dog.” To that the little boy replied, “No, my real problem was that mean ole’ dog. I wasn’t one bit afraid until he came along.”

As you read this post, you might have something in your life that has got you scared right now, and I’m not going to minimize your very real problem by chiding you with, “The only thing you have to fear is fear itself.” No, I’ll give you credit that what you’re dealing with is truly fear worthy. All I’ll say is that Jesus Christ stands ready and willing to help you overcome your fear.

One of Christ’s favorite exhortations to His followers was, “Fear not.” Those words held true for the likes of Peter, James, John, and Matthew, and they will hold true for you as well if you will believe in Jesus as your personal Savior and ask Him to help you with what’s got you scared. Whether it’s a boil weevil, a drought, a potato beetle, a dog, or something else, He can provide you with help and guidance. So, turn to Him today and experience the emboldening that only He can bring.

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Failed Lately?

When Tonya and I were raising our two sons, we didn’t want either of them to have any problems in life. We wanted them to enjoy perfect health. We wanted them to be the most popular kids at their schools. We wanted them to be Rhodes scholars. We wanted them to be star athletes. We wanted them to marry Homecoming queens. We wanted them to get jobs that paid six-figure salaries that would allow them to live in luxurious homes, drive expensive cars, and wear designer clothes. In other words, we wanted them to lead lives of unabridged successes.

The problem, however, with this entire fantasy was always that, typically, success walks hand in hand with failure. In other words, success and failure are two sides of the same coin. Furthermore, if all a person ever experienced in life was success, that person would end up shallow, conceited, and proud, to say nothing of them being wildly unsympathetic toward anyone who ever failed.

Not surprisingly, the Bible is filled with scores of people who failed. Off the top of my head, here are 15:

  1. Noah got drunk.
  2. Sarah suggested that her husband Abraham impregnate another woman.
  3. Abraham went along with that plan.
  4. Jacob stole his brother Esau’s birthright.
  5. His mother Rebekah helped him do it.
  6. Tamar slept with her father-in-law Judah and bore twins to him.
  7. Moses murdered an Egyptian.
  8. Aaron led in Israel’s worship of the golden calf.
  9. Rahab was a prostitute.
  10. David impregnated another man’s wife and had that man killed.
  11. Solomon became a rank idolater.
  12. Elijah allowed Queen Jezebel to intimidate him.
  13. The Samaritan woman at the well was married five times.
  14. Peter denied Christ three times.
  15. Paul (Saul of Tarsus) was the worst persecutor the early church knew.

The old story is that Thomas Edison said concerning his struggles to invent the light bulb, “I have not failed 700 times; I’ve discovered 700 things that won’t work in a light bulb.” (In some versions the quoted number is 1,000 rather than 700.) I don’t know if Edison ever actually said that, but it’s too good a quote to pass up. As Curtis Hutson, a noted Baptist preacher of another day, once said, “The man who never fails is the one who never attempts anything. And the more one attempts, the more he fails. But the more he fails, the more he’ll learn. And the more he puts into practice what he’s learned, the more he will succeed.”

Do I believe that God wants everyone to be successful in terms of how this world defines success? No, I don’t. Much to the contrary, I think He wants us to never stop learning in life, and He knows that we typically learn more from failure than we do from success. Additionally, I think He works through our failures to funnel us into areas where He can use us more for the greater good.

Just take another look at the names on that list I gave earlier. Each one of those people was someone whom God used greatly to accomplish His purposes. You see, it’s not that God wants us to fail or that he enjoys watching us fail; it’s just that He knows how to use our failures to mold and shape us into better people and better servants. Therefore, if you’ve got an entry that denotes a failure on your life’s resume, don’t let it keep you down. Talk to God about the failure, get the matter sorted out with Him, ask Him to help you learn from it, and then use what you learn to boldly march out into new ventures with Him.

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Lessons from Habakkuk

The Old Testament book of the prophet Habakkuk isn’t one that often gets preached. But that doesn’t mean that it won’t “preach.” This is evidenced by the fact that it is quoted multiple times in the New Testament.

The apostle Paul particularly loved the book. He closed his sermon at Antioch in Pisidia by quoting Habakkuk 1:5 (Acts 13:41), and he quoted Habakkuk 2:4 in both Romans 1:17 and Galatians 3:11. (Habakkuk 2:4 is also quoted in Hebrews 10:38, and Paul might have been the writer of Hebrews.) It is from Habakkuk 2:4, of course, that we get the famous line: “The just shall live by faith.” That line changed the entire ministry of a Catholic monk named Martin Luther, and in so doing gave birth to the Protestant Reformation.

Commentator William MacDonald describes Habakkuk as “the doubting Thomas of the OT” because of the prophet’s frequent complaints to God about His seeming indifference to the violence, iniquity, and injustice that characterized Habakkuk’s homeland of Judah. Consider the following quotes from Habakkuk (all from the N.K.J.V.):

  • “O Lord, how long shall I cry, and You will not hear? Even cry out to You, ‘Violence!’ and You will not save.” (1:2)
  • “Why do You show me iniquity, and cause me to see trouble? For plundering and violence are before me; there is strife, and contention arises.” (1:3)
  • “Therefore the law is powerless, and justice never goes forth. For the wicked surround the righteous; therefore perverse judgment proceeds.” (1:4)

If Habakkuk wanted to get God’s attention with his complaints, it worked. Unfortunately for Habakkuk, however, it didn’t work the way he wanted. God responded to the prophet’s complaints by explaining that He was raising up the nation of Chaldea (Babylon) to conquer Judah (Habakkuk 1:5-11). Ironically, that explanation prompted a new round of complaints from Habakkuk as the prophet couldn’t believe that God would let a people even more wicked than those of Judah conquer them (Habakkuk 1:12-17). Poor God, He just couldn’t win with Habakkuk.

To answer Habakkuk’s second round of complaining, God assured him that there would come a day when the Babylonians themselves would be brought down by judgment because of their many sins (2:2-20). That assurance was followed by Habakkuk offering a prayer of faith concerning the omnipotence and military might of God (3:1-16). Habakkuk closed his prayer by affirming that he would rejoice in the Lord even in the bleakest times that would be brought about by the Babylonian invasion (3:17-18), and that his trust in the Lord would surely be rewarded as God would renew his strength (3:19).

And so what lessons can we learn from the book of Habakkuk? Allow me to offer ten as I close out this post. Feel free to apply these any way that fits regarding your life.

  1. From an earthly standpoint, the wicked frequently triumph over the godly.
  2. God hears the cries of the godly when the wicked rule and justice is perverted.
  3. God doesn’t always send His judgment in the way in which we want Him to send it.
  4. You should be careful what you ask God to do because you might not like how He does it.
  5. God has no qualms about using the wicked to chastise His people.
  6. Even as God uses the wicked in His service, He has plans to judge them.
  7. God’s plans are oftentimes incredibly far reaching.
  8. Only a God as mighty and as omnipotent as God can let things get so ungodly upon the earth and yet remain unthreatened and completely in charge.
  9. The godly should rejoice in the Lord — simply because of Him being who He is — even when times are difficult.
  10. God will strengthen the godly and exalt them in due time.
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When You Can’t See God Working

In his book Looking On the Heart, Dale Ralph Davis relays the story of a B-17 bombing run over a German city during World War II. As one plane approached the city, it was struck by Nazi anti-aircraft flak. The flak hit the bomber’s fuel tanks, a strike that should have resulted in the explosion of the tanks and the plane. Somehow, though, no explosion followed. It seemed to be a miracle.

The morning after the raid the pilot went to the crew chief and asked for the shell that had hit the gas tank. He made that request because he wanted the shell for a souvenir. But the crew chief responded, “Which shell? There were eleven unexploded shells in the gas tank!”

The crew chief then explained that the eleven shells had been sent to the armorers to be defused. From there, Military Intelligence had gotten involved. That group had gotten involved because ten of the shells were empty, containing no explosive charges, and the other shell contained only a rolled-up note, written in Czech.

To say that everyone was curious about what that little note said would be an understatement, and so Military Intelligence set themselves to the task of locating someone who could read Czech. Fortunately, they found someone on base who could do so. And what did the note say? It read: “This is all we can do for you now.”

The explanation was obvious. Somewhere under the reign of Nazi Germany, some Czechoslovakians had been forced against their will to work in a munitions plant for the German war effort. Those Czechs did not believe in Hitler’s cause, but they weren’t bold enough, strong enough, or organized enough to attempt something radical such as blowing up the plant or assassinating Hitler. So, instead, they simply didn’t put charges in some of the shells they produced.

Davis applies this story by saying the following:

Such is frequently God’s way for his people. Not all his work is noisy or dramatic. We may be tempted to conclude he has abandoned us because we haven’t ears to hear the silent manner of God’s work.

I agree with him that God oftentimes works in a “silent manner” to get His plans accomplished. Christian, you need to remember this whenever you feel that God has ignored your plight and turned a deaf ear to your prayers. No, He hasn’t. It’s just that you can’t see the work He’s been doing for you. But it’s there, and one day (perhaps very soon) you will be able to see the end result of it all.

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Fall & You

One look out my window today here in the mountains of western North Carolina proves that Fall has arrived. I’ve already got a yard full of dead leaves that have officially made the “fall” from their trees to the ground, and more of their peers will come down today. Despite the fact that I have to deal with all the leaves, I love this season. It’s my favorite time of the year.

My neighborhood is also currently offering vivid reminders that Fall is here as the yards of some of my neighbors look like shrines to Halloween. One guy up the street from me has devoted literally thousands of dollars to turning his yard into a ghoulish graveyard filled with row after row of gigantic, towering decorations (a talking witch, a mummy, a grim reaper, ghosts, zombies, etc.) No wonder Fall is considered the season of death. The leaves die. The grass dies. The long summer days die. The warm weather dies. Following their deaths all these things will be buried for the duration of the winter, and then spring will arrive, the season of new life.

I don’t know what it says about me that Fall is my favorite season of the year. A psychologist might tell me it means that I’m more into death than life. Then again, it might be as simple as me hating bees, mosquitoes, gnats, ticks, and hot weather. Or, since I love baseball, maybe my mind subconsciously associates fall with the Major League playoffs and World Series. For that matter, since October 3rd is my birthday, I don’t necessarily associate fall with death anyway. I associate it with life, at least mine. Take that, Mr. Psychologist.

Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 is one of my favorite passages of scripture. It’s one that I reference often. The passage’s opening two verses say:

To everything there is a season, A time for every purpose under heaven: A time to be born, And a time to die…(N.K.J.V.)

Perhaps today, as you read this short post, there is something in your life that needs to die. Maybe that something is a pet sin. Maybe it’s a relationship that isn’t God’s will for you. Maybe it’s a mindset that isn’t pleasing to God. Maybe it’s a course of action that you’ve started that God never wants you to finish. Maybe it’s something else. Whatever it is, there is no better time of year to put it to death. If you think about it, God’s symbolism for the death is seen all around us right now.

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What’s Your Love Language?

My mother attends Calvary Baptist Church in Winston Salem, NC. Dr. Gary Chapman served on staff there for many years, but he is best known as the author of “The Five Love Languages” series of books. The first of those books, The Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts, was published in 1992 and has since sold 10 million copies in English and been translated into 49 other languages. It has also spun off other books such as: The Five Love Languages: Singles Edition, The Five Love Languages of Children, and The Five Love Languages: Men’s Edition.

According to Dr. Chapman, a love language is a way by which an individual speaks and understands emotional love. It’s how a person not only expresses love toward others but senses love from others. And what are the five love languages? They are:

  1. Words of Affirmation: People who are wired with this love language put great stock in verbal compliments and words of appreciation. They show love by bragging on others, and they feel loved when others brag on them.
  2. Quality Time: People who are wired with this love language prioritize attention. They show love and feel love by turning off the television, computer, and phone and engaging in intimate conversations, long walks, or other one-on-one interactions. They see time as the most valuable gift you can give someone.
  3. Receiving Gifts: People who are wired with this love language are all about the exchanging of gifts. The gifts don’t have to be large or expensive, even though they can be. They just have to be from the heart. These people show love by giving a gift to another, and they feel loved when someone gives them a gift.
  4. Acts of Service: People who are wired with this love language believe that actions speak louder than words. If they love you, they will do things for you, and if you want to show them that you love them, you should do something for them. These people tend to be very practical and down to earth.
  5. Physical Touch: People who are wired with this love language are huggers. They like hand-holding, arms around the shoulders, pats on the back, and little kisses on the cheek. It’s all about flesh on flesh. These folks don’t see the need for the concept of “personal space.”

Now,  as you might guess, these five love languages oftentimes overlap in the lives of individuals. For example, many people who value quality time also value physical touch. Likewise, many who value receiving gifts also value acts of service. This isn’t hard to understand.

And, yes, the difference between the sexes frequently comes into play in these matters. The stereotypical male will be high on acts of service while the stereotypical female will be high on quality time. Unfortunately, those two love languages don’t usually jive, and this communication gap has been a major contributor in the demise of many marriages. Think about a wife deciding that she wants to go for a walk with her husband, only to find that he is in the middle of changing the oil in her car.

While most people have traces of all the love languages, Dr. Chapman’s point is that each person majors on one or two. As for me, my two are Words of Affirmation and Acts of Service. If you want to show me that you love me, pay me a compliment or do something for me. Those are the things that register with me the most. Accordingly, if I pay you a compliment or do something for you, you should know that I care.

My wife, Tonya, can attest to the fact that I’m not much on quality time or physical touch. On the subject of walks, if you ever see her out for one while she holds hands with a man, you should assume that she’s having an affair. It’s either that or I’ve done something really, really bad and am trying to make up for it.

I’m not so much into receiving gifts, either. I’m normal enough to like birthday presents and Christmas packages, but I don’t fly mad if I don’t get them. My mind just doesn’t think that way.

If you have trouble determining what your particular love languages are, here are three questions that can help you decide:

  • If you get a birthday card in the mail, are you more touched by the card itself or the monetary gift inside? The sending of the card speaks to acts of service. The monetary gift speaks to receiving gifts.
  • If your father or mother gives you a big hug and says, “You did a great job,” are you more touched by the hug or the compliment? The hug speaks to physical touch. The compliment speaks to words of affirmation.
  • If you and another person spend the day on a certain project, are you more touched by the fact that the job got done or by the fact that you got to spend all those hours around that person? The finishing of the job speaks to acts of service. The hours spent on the job speak to quality time.

In all my years of preaching on the subjects of marriage, parenting, and relationships in general, I’ve never run across anything better than Dr. Chapman’s five love languages. They really do get right down there where we live. It’s no wonder the books are so popular.

That’s why I encourage you right now to give yourself a quick mental checkup to identify your specific language or languages. Then talk to the people closest to you (your spouse, your children, your mother, your father, and your friends) and ask each of them what he or she feels is his or her language. This will enable you to most effectively show your love for them going forward. And if there is anything this world needs these days, it’s people effectively showing authentic love toward others.

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Something We Can Learn From the Harvey Weinstein Story

I can’t get on the internet these days without seeing a new article about the Harvey Weinstein scandal out in Hollywood. For those of you who might not know, Weinstein has been one of the most powerful men in the movie industry for over thirty years. He and his brother, Bob, co-founded the Miramax production company in 1979, and it quickly became one of the most successful in the movie business. I won’t cite Harvey Weinstein’s resume here, but the fact that Meryl Streep jokingly referred to him as “God” in accepting her 2012 Golden Globe award for her role in The Iron Lady will give you a pretty good idea about Weinstein’s clout.

But that clout is now gone. Last week, The New York Times published an expose in which a number of women, including actress Ashley Judd, accused Weinstein of sexual harassment. A few days later, The New Yorker magazine ran an article, written by Ronan Farrow (the son of Woody Allen and Mia Farrow), in which he contended that Weinstein had sexually harassed or sexually assaulted thirteen women, and had raped three of them. In a followup article the same day, The New York Times cited Angelina Jolie and Gwyneth Paltrow among many actresses who had reportedly had Weinstein make unwanted sexual advances toward them.

In the wake of all these allegations, Weinstein has been fired as co-chairman of The Weinstein Company, and his wife, Georgina Chapman, has announced her intentions to divorce him. It’s even reached the point where Democratic politicians who have accepted donations from Weinstein over the years are now being pressured to return the money. Rarely has the public seen such a swift and complete fall from grace.

Needless to say, a lot of people are writing about Harvey Weinstein today, but I just want to hone in on one fundamental fact that is now bubbling up out of this whole wretched mess. That fact is: Many of the major players in Hollywood — actors, directors, producers, etc. — KNEW about Weinstein for years but kept their mouths shut for fear their careers would be damaged by going public about him. As it turns out, a whole bunch of those Hollywood types who are so good at pushing their moralistic views onto us regular folks aren’t nearly as morally principled as they like to believe. When it comes to their careers, their fame, and their money, they are perfectly willing to look the other way rather than play the role of whistleblower. I think this is why the Weinstein scandal has hit them so hard. It’s laid their hypocrisy bare.

However, before you throw any rocks at the house of Hollywood, you’d do well to examine your own and make sure that it isn’t made of glass. What I mean is, do you have the moral backbone and courage to denounce sin where you find it? What if that denouncing costs you your job? What if it costs you money? What if it costs you family? What if it costs you friends? What if it makes you an outsider in an insider world?

You say, “Oh, I can handle all that.” Okay, then let’s talk about your family. What if your whistleblowing gets your spouse either alienated at work or fired? What if it costs your child playing time or a spot on the team? What if your family has to move because the blowback becomes so intense? Tell me, can you handle all of that? Really?

And here’s the ultimate question for you: If you know going in that your whistleblowing won’t result in the problem getting fixed, will you still speak out simply because it’s the right thing to do? Ah, now we’re getting down to it. Where does logic trump moral outrage? At what point does common sense silence the prophet’s voice? When does personal security take precedent over fixing the world’s problems? Summing it all up, what is your price for going along to get along?

In Ephesians 5:11, the Bible tells us Christians to have no fellowship with (take no part in, have nothing to do with, don’t participate in) the unfruitful works of darkness. While, admittedly, we oftentimes fail at living up to even this first part of the verse, it’s the verse’s second part that really puts us to shame. There we are told that we should expose (rebuke) those works of darkness. That certainly takes the matter to a whole other level, doesn’t it? Staying away from a work of darkness is one thing; raising your voice against it is quite another.

As for the Bible’s record, there are instances where the whistleblower (the rebuker, the exposer) is treated kindly and his message is accepted in the spirit in which it is given. For example, King David responded appreciatively to the prophet Nathan’s rebuke (2 Samuel 12:1-15), and Peter responded rightly to Paul’s (Galatians 2:11-21). Then again, there are other instances where things don’t end well for the whistleblower. Herod Antipas had John the Baptist beheaded (Matthew 14:1-12), the Sanhedrin Council stoned Stephen to death (Acts 7:51-60), and the Jews/Romans crucified Jesus.

What the Harvey Weinstein story teaches us is that whistleblowing (rebuking, exposing) is rare. Sure, everyone is jumping off the Weinstein train now, but that’s only because it has derailed. For the past thirty years, as Weinstein was making or breaking careers and winning awards, there certainly wasn’t anything being publicly said or done about his sexual misconduct. But now that the story has broken, A-list actors are taking to their Twitter accounts to issue vanilla, politically correct statements about how appalled they are at his transgressions. And while I don’t doubt that most of them are genuinely appalled, it’s obvious they weren’t appalled enough to speak up until it was safe to do so. You see, that’s the problem with being a whistleblower. If you wait until it’s safe to blow your whistle, you’ll find that it doesn’t work.

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Do It Now

Here’s a true story. A church in San Antonio, Texas, committed to a fundraising drive to build a new building. On a chosen Sunday morning, a special offering would be taken up to help toward reaching the monetary goal. Each member was asked to pray about how much he or she should give.

A couple of days after that announcement was made, a middle-aged man stopped by the pastor’s office. He told the pastor that he and his wife had been praying about what they should give and had decided on the amount of $10,000. The pastor was astonished because he knew this couple well enough to know they weren’t wealthy, and he was even more astonished when the man reached into his pocket, pulled out the money, and laid it on the desk. Evidently the fellow had just come from the bank, where he had arranged for the money.

When the pastor pointed out that the couple might be overextending themselves by donating such a large amount, the man explained the incalculable influence the church had exerted upon the couple’s life. Both the husband and the wife had been raised in the church. They had met in the church. They had been baptized in the church. They had been married in the church. Their children had been raised in the church, and now their grandchildren were attending there as well. Because of all this, the couple felt they couldn’t give any less than $10,000.

After hearing that, the pastor graciously accepted the gift, but he did ask the man to keep the money and personally place it into the offering plate the designated Sunday morning. The man, however, wouldn’t agree to that. He said, “Pastor, we already know what God wants us to do — so we want to do it right now while we can. I do expect to be here that Sunday morning, but I believe the time for a fellow to do anything is just as soon as he knows what God wants him to.”

A couple of days later a wealthy local businessman learned that he had to make a trip to California. Since he had a four-passenger plane, he called three of his friends and asked if they would like to join him, free of charge, on the trip. The man who gave the $10,000 was one of the friends. For some reason, the group decided to fly to Denver, Colorado, first, where they landed at Stapleton Airport. The next morning they filed a flight plan for Los Angeles and took off. After that the plane was never seen again. It must have gone down somewhere in the Rocky Mountains.

On the Sunday the building-drive offering was taken up, the widow, surrounded by her children and grandchildren, sat in the church sanctuary and watched the pastor place the $10,000 into the plate. She was thankful her husband hadn’t waited to donate the money. If he had he wouldn’t have gotten to experience the earthly joy of personally donating to that offering.

When God told Abraham to take his son, Isaac, to the land of Moriah and sacrifice him there, Abraham rose early the next morning and began the journey (Genesis 22:1-3). When the Holy Spirit told Philip to overtake the Ethiopian eunuch’s chariot, Philip ran to do it (Acts 8:29-30). This is the “DO IT NOW” mentality, and it’s something that is sorely lacking among Christians. So, Christian, I’ve got two simple questions for you: #1: Has God told you to do something? And #2: Have you done it yet?

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God’s Perspective

A man was having a particularly intimate conversation with God by way of prayer. The man asked, “God, how long is a million years to you?” God answered, “It’s just like a second of time for you, My child.” The man asked, “And what is a million dollars to you, Lord?” God answered, “To Me, it’s just like a single penny.” The man asked, “Then Lord, will you give me one of your pennies?” God answered, “Certainly. In a second.”

Perspective. It means everything, doesn’t it? And God’s perspective on just about everything is vastly different than ours. That’s why Isaiah 55:8-9 says:

“For My thoughts are not your thoughts, Nor are My ways,” says the Lord. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, So are My ways higher than your ways, And My thoughts than your thoughts.” (N.K.J.V.)

I don’t know what you are going through right now, but let me encourage you to stop seeing it through your limited perspective and start seeing it through God’s eternal one. For example, are you currently enjoying a season of good times when everything is going well for you? Then, perhaps, God is allowing you to take His test of prosperity (which is a difficult test to pass, by the way). Are you dealing with some awful situation and you can’t understand why God hasn’t fixed it yet? Then, perhaps, He is building patience and perseverance into you. Are you facing something that looks completely and utterly hopeless? Then, perhaps, He is enrolling you in His course on faith. On and on I could go with the hypothetical situations and God’s perspective on them, but you get the idea.

One of the best things you can do in the midst of ANY situation — whether it be good or bad, pleasant or unpleasant, pleasing or trying — is ask God to help you see it from His perspective. And when He provides that insight, what you’ll probably find is that He has a different agenda than you do for the situation. In other words, you might be trying to get one thing out of the situation, while He is trying to give you something completely different through it. Speaking from personal experience, I can’t tell you how many times He and I have been on different agendas regarding what was going on in my life. I was zigging while He was zagging.

So, wherever this post finds you, put it to use regarding your circumstance. Yes, God’s thoughts are not your thoughts and His ways are not your ways, but that doesn’t mean that His thoughts and ways are not as good as yours. To the contrary, His thoughts and ways are higher than yours, as high as the heavens are from the earth. That means that His thoughts and ways can be trusted even when they don’t make any sense to you. Like I said, you just have to start seeing things from His perspective, not yours.

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A Hard Truth

Samson was conceived in the womb of his previously barren mother. And why did God choose to open her womb at that time? It was because Israel needed a leader (a Judge) to deal with the Philistines. As is the typical pattern in the book of Judges, Israel had done evil in the sight of the Lord, the Lord had delivered them into the hands of an enemy race (the Philistines), and now it was time for God to raise up a Judge (Samson) to deliver them from that enemy race.

At first glance, this all sounds good, doesn’t it? But here’s the thing: According to Judges 13:1, Samson’s conception in his mother’s womb only came after the Philistines had oppressed Israel for 40 years! For that matter, even after Samson was born, it would be several more years before he reached an age where he could actually fight the Philistines. The Bible doesn’t tell us precisely what age that was, but Samson’s first dealings with the Philistines took place as part of the circumstances surrounding his intended wedding to a Philistine girl (Judges 14:1-20). Most likely, then, Samson was 20 or so years old at the time of the story, give or take a few years either way. So, by doing the math, we come up with a period of approximately 60 years in which the people of Israel were oppressed by the Philistines.

Now, I used to read such stories in the Bible and jump right over the 60 years to get to the part about Samson slaying all the Philistines. At this point in my life, however, I’ve lived through some difficult experiences that have radically changed my perspective and caused me to think some different thoughts about the story of Samson. A couple of those thoughts are wrapped up in the following questions:

Question #1: How many Israelites died during the 40-60 years of Philistine oppression, never having seen God’s deliverance through Samson?

Question #2: By the time Samson started fighting Philistines, had the Israelites who were alive when the Philistine oppression had begun and were still living given up on God ever sending their deliverance?

Let’s say that you were one of those Israelites who asked God to deliver your nation from the Philistines, but you died before Samson came along. On your death bed, what would your level of faith have been? I can assure you that there are people out there right now who have lost faith in God due to the fact that years have now passed, even decades, and they haven’t seen Him move concerning their prayer requests.

That’s why, Christian, the next time you talk with someone who is honest enough to admit that they no longer have faith in God, you should take the time to ask about their reason. What you’ll find is that many of these people have stories of disappointment to tell. They didn’t become faithless overnight; it only happened after years of what they felt were unanswered requests.

You see, even as we can thank God anytime a Samson bursts onto the scene to deliver oppressed people, we can also acknowledge that there are instances in which God’s deliverance never comes to certain people during their earthly lives. Needless to say, to be forced to live your life as an undelivered person calls for the highest level of faith and trust in God. Job was such a person. He said, “Though He slay me, yet will I trust Him” (Job 13:15, N.K.J.V. emphasis mine). Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego were such people as well. They told Nebuchadnezzar, “…our God whom we serve is able to deliver us from the burning fiery furnace, and He will deliver us from your hand, O king. But if not, let it be known to you, O king, that we do not serve your gods, nor will we worship the gold image which you have set up” (Daniel 3:17-18, N.K.J.V., emphasis mine).

I don’t know why God doesn’t always send the deliverance, and I don’t know why He sometimes sends it so late that its impact seems to get lost in all the years. Does He love us? Yes. Will He bring good out of allowing us to remain in our state of oppression? Yes. Will the Christian receive more eternal rewards for having to endure the oppression? Yes. Will God’s purposes triumph over Satan’s purposes in the end? Yes. Nevertheless, none of these “Yes” answers can fully relieve the earthly heartbreak you feel at getting terrorized by some “Philistine” for years and years even as you pray every day, asking God for deliverance.

And so, what is the hard truth that we need to learn? It’s this: Sometimes God either doesn’t send the Calvary at all or it rides in too late to do you any earthly good. This is a truth you’ll never hear from the “health-and-wealth” “prosperity” preachers of our day because they only talk about faith for deliverance, never faith for disappointment or faith for death. The reality is, though, that faith for disappointment and even death is called for in the blank spaces that we find hidden between all the instances of deliverance in the Bible. We just have to retrain our brains to start noticing those spaces.

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