“How’s Russell Doing These Days?”

I thought I’d use today’s post to provide you — my regular readers — with a snapshot of my life and ministry these days. It’s not that I consider my personal affairs to be so important that you’all are just dying to hear them. No, all those character-building experiences and lessons in humility that God has been running me through the past thirty years or so have definitely done their job. Instead, I offer these thoughts merely as a way to keep the blog personal and homey. You need to know who you are reading, right?

On the church front, I’m finishing up my ninth month at Oak Grove Baptist Church in Nebo, NC. After serving as the pastor of the non-denominational and non-traditional Disciples Road Church for over eight years, I’ve found the transition back into the realm of the traditional, rural, Southern Baptist Convention church to be a relatively easy one. Not much changed during the years I was at Disciples Road. Thus far, I’ve spent most of my time at Oak Grove getting to know the people, working to better stabilize the church’s attendance, and trying to bring more organizational structure to the way the congregation goes about its weekly business. I can’t say that we’ve grown in attendance all that much, but the attendance has become more consistent, and I like to think that we are getting things in order for future growth. I was especially touched to receive no less than 26 (and counting) cards from my church members for October being Pastor Appreciation Month.

On the home front, Tonya is in her 26th year teaching math at Bowman Middle School in Bakersville, NC. You might think that teaching gets easier as you gain more experience and grow older, but that’s not the case. To the contrary, each year seems to take a little bit out of you as you give yourself to your students. When Tonya first started teaching, she noticed that the older teachers were crankier than the younger teachers. Now she understands why. Of course, it probably hasn’t helped that I’ve got her teaching a children’s Sunday School class at Oak Grove and serving as the chairperson of the Kitchen Committee. She also directed our Bible School this past summer. I guess it’s safe to say that when I reentered Baptist life, so did she.

Our oldest son, Ryan, is enjoying his junior year at Johnson University, a Christian university located just outside of Knoxville, Tennessee. His grades are great, and this year he’s rooming with the RA (Resident Assistant) of the boys’ dorm. He’s on track to complete his degree next year and earn his teaching license in Physical Education K-12/Sports & Fitness Leadership. Afterward he’ll look for a job as a PE teacher and coach. He’s also deer hunting and fishing every chance he gets these days.

Our younger son, Royce, is doing well in his junior year at Mitchell, our local high school. His grades are great too, but he still doesn’t know what he wants to be when he grows up, unless professional video-game player is an option. He recently finished up his last year of eligibility in Asheville’s Fall Ball baseball league. For the past three falls we’ve put in the hour drive both ways for him to play in that league. It was a good experience for him, but I don’t mind admitting that we weren’t sorry to see all that driving become a thing of the past. He’ll be on Mitchell’s varsity team this coming spring, and the games he played in Fall Ball have definitely made him a better player. He’s also loving the fact that he now has his driver’s license and gets to drive himself to and from Mitchell each day.

Finally, on the blog front, the blog’s number of views are currently on pace for another good year. If the pace holds through December, this year’s views will easily exceed last year’s and will come in either just above or just below the number from 2012, which was my second-best year all time. While 2014’s record year will remain the goal to reach, it’s encouraging that my followers are now at an all time high of 99. A follower, as you might know, is a person who receives an email notification each time I publish a new post. It’s also encouraging that the number of views the blog receives from people outside the United States continues to climb. In the past 12 months, people from 129 countries around the world have viewed something I’ve written. I don’t even know how to process that in my little mind, but it sure brings a smile to my face to think about it.

Well, I guess that’s about enough for today. I trust it goes without saying that I’m beyond thankful for each of you who ever reads anything I’ve posted, but I’ll go ahead and say it anyway: THANK YOU!!! It’s obvious that God is using this blog as a blessing to a whole bunch of folks in a whole bunch of places, and I believe He will continue to do so. If you have the time, please say a little prayer for me that He will continue to bless my family, my ministry, and this blog. And, for my part, I promise that I’ll continue to write whatever He leads me to write. That’s not always what I want to write, just as it’s not always what you want to read, but at least we’re all in this thing together.

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The Very Real Problem of Fear

One hot day in July, a farmer sat lazily on the porch of his shack, whittling on a piece of wood. A neighbor dropped by for a visit and asked him, “Did you get your cotton harvested yet?” Without looking up from his whittling, the farmer answered, “Didn’t plant none. ‘Fraid of the boil weevil.” The neighbor nodded his head understandingly and said, “Yes, those little insects can sure bankrupt a man by laying waste to a good field of cotton. I can’t say as I blame you.”

Continuing his search for grounds of conversation, the neighbor tried again. “So, have you got a good stand of corn?” he asked. The farmer, still looking down at his whittling, said, “Didn’t plant no corn neither. ‘Fraid of drought.” Again, the neighbor nodded his head knowingly and said, “I can’t blame you there. This weather has gotten so crazy that nobody can tell if or when it’s going to rain.”

Now the neighbor was feeling embarrassed over his lack of knowledge about the man’s farm, but he decided to try one more time. Cautiously he said, “Well, if you didn’t plant any cotton or corn, I guess you planted potatoes. How are they doing? Does it look like you’re going to have a good harvest there?” But the farmer didn’t change his actions or his tone as he replied, “Ain’t got no taters neither. ‘Fraid of the tater bugs.” One more time the neighbor nodded his head in agreement as he said, “Yes, I hear those pesky beetles can ruin a whole field if they get in there good. And you don’t want that happening to you.”

By this time the neighbor was thoroughly ashamed of himself for not knowing more about the farmer’s fields, and so he figured it was time for some apologizing. He said to the farmer, “I beg your pardon for not keeping up with you better. I’ve just been so busy myself lately that I haven’t paid much attention to what’s been going on over here. So tell me, what did you plant this year?” The farmer, still not looking up from his whittling, dryly answered, “Nothin.’ I just played it safe.”

President Franklin Delano Roosevelt once famously told the American people, “The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.” At the time, America was in the throes of the Great Depression and people were running to their banks to withdraw all their money for fear they would lose it if the banks closed. Roosevelt was trying to curb that rising tide.

While I understand the need for the reassurance Roosevelt offered at that moment in history, the fact is that this world really can be a frightful place. All the reassuring words in the vocabulary won’t stop a job termination, an eviction notice, a bad medical diagnosis, a judge’s sentence, a catastrophic weather event, a terrorist act, etc. It’s like the little boy who got bit by a dog. His mother said, “Now son, if that dog hadn’t sensed fear in you, it wouldn’t have bitten you. I believe your real problem was your fear, not that dog.” To that the little boy replied, “No, my real problem was that mean ole’ dog. I wasn’t one bit afraid until he came along.”

As you read this post, you might have something in your life that has got you scared right now, and I’m not going to minimize your very real problem by chiding you with, “The only thing you have to fear is fear itself.” No, I’ll give you credit that what you’re dealing with is truly fear worthy. All I’ll say is that Jesus Christ stands ready and willing to help you overcome your fear.

One of Christ’s favorite exhortations to His followers was, “Fear not.” Those words held true for the likes of Peter, James, John, and Matthew, and they will hold true for you as well if you will believe in Jesus as your personal Savior and ask Him to help you with what’s got you scared. Whether it’s a boil weevil, a drought, a potato beetle, a dog, or something else, He can provide you with help and guidance. So, turn to Him today and experience the emboldening that only He can bring.

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Failed Lately?

When Tonya and I were raising our two sons, we didn’t want either of them to have any problems in life. We wanted them to enjoy perfect health. We wanted them to be the most popular kids at their schools. We wanted them to be Rhodes scholars. We wanted them to be star athletes. We wanted them to marry Homecoming queens. We wanted them to get jobs that paid six-figure salaries that would allow them to live in luxurious homes, drive expensive cars, and wear designer clothes. In other words, we wanted them to lead lives of unabridged successes.

The problem, however, with this entire fantasy was always that, typically, success walks hand in hand with failure. In other words, success and failure are two sides of the same coin. Furthermore, if all a person ever experienced in life was success, that person would end up shallow, conceited, and proud, to say nothing of them being wildly unsympathetic toward anyone who ever failed.

Not surprisingly, the Bible is filled with scores of people who failed. Off the top of my head, here are 15:

  1. Noah got drunk.
  2. Sarah suggested that her husband Abraham impregnate another woman.
  3. Abraham went along with that plan.
  4. Jacob stole his brother Esau’s birthright.
  5. His mother Rebekah helped him do it.
  6. Tamar slept with her father-in-law Judah and bore twins to him.
  7. Moses murdered an Egyptian.
  8. Aaron led in Israel’s worship of the golden calf.
  9. Rahab was a prostitute.
  10. David impregnated another man’s wife and had that man killed.
  11. Solomon became a rank idolater.
  12. Elijah allowed Queen Jezebel to intimidate him.
  13. The Samaritan woman at the well was married five times.
  14. Peter denied Christ three times.
  15. Paul (Saul of Tarsus) was the worst persecutor the early church knew.

The old story is that Thomas Edison said concerning his struggles to invent the light bulb, “I have not failed 700 times; I’ve discovered 700 things that won’t work in a light bulb.” (In some versions the quoted number is 1,000 rather than 700.) I don’t know if Edison ever actually said that, but it’s too good a quote to pass up. As Curtis Hutson, a noted Baptist preacher of another day, once said, “The man who never fails is the one who never attempts anything. And the more one attempts, the more he fails. But the more he fails, the more he’ll learn. And the more he puts into practice what he’s learned, the more he will succeed.”

Do I believe that God wants everyone to be successful in terms of how this world defines success? No, I don’t. Much to the contrary, I think He wants us to never stop learning in life, and He knows that we typically learn more from failure than we do from success. Additionally, I think He works through our failures to funnel us into areas where He can use us more for the greater good.

Just take another look at the names on that list I gave earlier. Each one of those people was someone whom God used greatly to accomplish His purposes. You see, it’s not that God wants us to fail or that he enjoys watching us fail; it’s just that He knows how to use our failures to mold and shape us into better people and better servants. Therefore, if you’ve got an entry that denotes a failure on your life’s resume, don’t let it keep you down. Talk to God about the failure, get the matter sorted out with Him, ask Him to help you learn from it, and then use what you learn to boldly march out into new ventures with Him.

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Lessons from Habakkuk

The Old Testament book of the prophet Habakkuk isn’t one that often gets preached. But that doesn’t mean that it won’t “preach.” This is evidenced by the fact that it is quoted multiple times in the New Testament.

The apostle Paul particularly loved the book. He closed his sermon at Antioch in Pisidia by quoting Habakkuk 1:5 (Acts 13:41), and he quoted Habakkuk 2:4 in both Romans 1:17 and Galatians 3:11. (Habakkuk 2:4 is also quoted in Hebrews 10:38, and Paul might have been the writer of Hebrews.) It is from Habakkuk 2:4, of course, that we get the famous line: “The just shall live by faith.” That line changed the entire ministry of a Catholic monk named Martin Luther, and in so doing gave birth to the Protestant Reformation.

Commentator William MacDonald describes Habakkuk as “the doubting Thomas of the OT” because of the prophet’s frequent complaints to God about His seeming indifference to the violence, iniquity, and injustice that characterized Habakkuk’s homeland of Judah. Consider the following quotes from Habakkuk (all from the N.K.J.V.):

  • “O Lord, how long shall I cry, and You will not hear? Even cry out to You, ‘Violence!’ and You will not save.” (1:2)
  • “Why do You show me iniquity, and cause me to see trouble? For plundering and violence are before me; there is strife, and contention arises.” (1:3)
  • “Therefore the law is powerless, and justice never goes forth. For the wicked surround the righteous; therefore perverse judgment proceeds.” (1:4)

If Habakkuk wanted to get God’s attention with his complaints, it worked. Unfortunately for Habakkuk, however, it didn’t work the way he wanted. God responded to the prophet’s complaints by explaining that He was raising up the nation of Chaldea (Babylon) to conquer Judah (Habakkuk 1:5-11). Ironically, that explanation prompted a new round of complaints from Habakkuk as the prophet couldn’t believe that God would let a people even more wicked than those of Judah conquer them (Habakkuk 1:12-17). Poor God, He just couldn’t win with Habakkuk.

To answer Habakkuk’s second round of complaining, God assured him that there would come a day when the Babylonians themselves would be brought down by judgment because of their many sins (2:2-20). That assurance was followed by Habakkuk offering a prayer of faith concerning the omnipotence and military might of God (3:1-16). Habakkuk closed his prayer by affirming that he would rejoice in the Lord even in the bleakest times that would be brought about by the Babylonian invasion (3:17-18), and that his trust in the Lord would surely be rewarded as God would renew his strength (3:19).

And so what lessons can we learn from the book of Habakkuk? Allow me to offer ten as I close out this post. Feel free to apply these any way that fits regarding your life.

  1. From an earthly standpoint, the wicked frequently triumph over the godly.
  2. God hears the cries of the godly when the wicked rule and justice is perverted.
  3. God doesn’t always send His judgment in the way in which we want Him to send it.
  4. You should be careful what you ask God to do because you might not like how He does it.
  5. God has no qualms about using the wicked to chastise His people.
  6. Even as God uses the wicked in His service, He has plans to judge them.
  7. God’s plans are oftentimes incredibly far reaching.
  8. Only a God as mighty and as omnipotent as God can let things get so ungodly upon the earth and yet remain unthreatened and completely in charge.
  9. The godly should rejoice in the Lord — simply because of Him being who He is — even when times are difficult.
  10. God will strengthen the godly and exalt them in due time.
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When You Can’t See God Working

In his book Looking On the Heart, Dale Ralph Davis relays the story of a B-17 bombing run over a German city during World War II. As one plane approached the city, it was struck by Nazi anti-aircraft flak. The flak hit the bomber’s fuel tanks, a strike that should have resulted in the explosion of the tanks and the plane. Somehow, though, no explosion followed. It seemed to be a miracle.

The morning after the raid the pilot went to the crew chief and asked for the shell that had hit the gas tank. He made that request because he wanted the shell for a souvenir. But the crew chief responded, “Which shell? There were eleven unexploded shells in the gas tank!”

The crew chief then explained that the eleven shells had been sent to the armorers to be defused. From there, Military Intelligence had gotten involved. That group had gotten involved because ten of the shells were empty, containing no explosive charges, and the other shell contained only a rolled-up note, written in Czech.

To say that everyone was curious about what that little note said would be an understatement, and so Military Intelligence set themselves to the task of locating someone who could read Czech. Fortunately, they found someone on base who could do so. And what did the note say? It read: “This is all we can do for you now.”

The explanation was obvious. Somewhere under the reign of Nazi Germany, some Czechoslovakians had been forced against their will to work in a munitions plant for the German war effort. Those Czechs did not believe in Hitler’s cause, but they weren’t bold enough, strong enough, or organized enough to attempt something radical such as blowing up the plant or assassinating Hitler. So, instead, they simply didn’t put charges in some of the shells they produced.

Davis applies this story by saying the following:

Such is frequently God’s way for his people. Not all his work is noisy or dramatic. We may be tempted to conclude he has abandoned us because we haven’t ears to hear the silent manner of God’s work.

I agree with him that God oftentimes works in a “silent manner” to get His plans accomplished. Christian, you need to remember this whenever you feel that God has ignored your plight and turned a deaf ear to your prayers. No, He hasn’t. It’s just that you can’t see the work He’s been doing for you. But it’s there, and one day (perhaps very soon) you will be able to see the end result of it all.

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Fall & You

One look out my window today here in the mountains of western North Carolina proves that Fall has arrived. I’ve already got a yard full of dead leaves that have officially made the “fall” from their trees to the ground, and more of their peers will come down today. Despite the fact that I have to deal with all the leaves, I love this season. It’s my favorite time of the year.

My neighborhood is also currently offering vivid reminders that Fall is here as the yards of some of my neighbors look like shrines to Halloween. One guy up the street from me has devoted literally thousands of dollars to turning his yard into a ghoulish graveyard filled with row after row of gigantic, towering decorations (a talking witch, a mummy, a grim reaper, ghosts, zombies, etc.) No wonder Fall is considered the season of death. The leaves die. The grass dies. The long summer days die. The warm weather dies. Following their deaths all these things will be buried for the duration of the winter, and then spring will arrive, the season of new life.

I don’t know what it says about me that Fall is my favorite season of the year. A psychologist might tell me it means that I’m more into death than life. Then again, it might be as simple as me hating bees, mosquitoes, gnats, ticks, and hot weather. Or, since I love baseball, maybe my mind subconsciously associates fall with the Major League playoffs and World Series. For that matter, since October 3rd is my birthday, I don’t necessarily associate fall with death anyway. I associate it with life, at least mine. Take that, Mr. Psychologist.

Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 is one of my favorite passages of scripture. It’s one that I reference often. The passage’s opening two verses say:

To everything there is a season, A time for every purpose under heaven: A time to be born, And a time to die…(N.K.J.V.)

Perhaps today, as you read this short post, there is something in your life that needs to die. Maybe that something is a pet sin. Maybe it’s a relationship that isn’t God’s will for you. Maybe it’s a mindset that isn’t pleasing to God. Maybe it’s a course of action that you’ve started that God never wants you to finish. Maybe it’s something else. Whatever it is, there is no better time of year to put it to death. If you think about it, God’s symbolism for the death is seen all around us right now.

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What’s Your Love Language?

My mother attends Calvary Baptist Church in Winston Salem, NC. Dr. Gary Chapman served on staff there for many years, but he is best known as the author of “The Five Love Languages” series of books. The first of those books, The Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts, was published in 1992 and has since sold 10 million copies in English and been translated into 49 other languages. It has also spun off other books such as: The Five Love Languages: Singles Edition, The Five Love Languages of Children, and The Five Love Languages: Men’s Edition.

According to Dr. Chapman, a love language is a way by which an individual speaks and understands emotional love. It’s how a person not only expresses love toward others but senses love from others. And what are the five love languages? They are:

  1. Words of Affirmation: People who are wired with this love language put great stock in verbal compliments and words of appreciation. They show love by bragging on others, and they feel loved when others brag on them.
  2. Quality Time: People who are wired with this love language prioritize attention. They show love and feel love by turning off the television, computer, and phone and engaging in intimate conversations, long walks, or other one-on-one interactions. They see time as the most valuable gift you can give someone.
  3. Receiving Gifts: People who are wired with this love language are all about the exchanging of gifts. The gifts don’t have to be large or expensive, even though they can be. They just have to be from the heart. These people show love by giving a gift to another, and they feel loved when someone gives them a gift.
  4. Acts of Service: People who are wired with this love language believe that actions speak louder than words. If they love you, they will do things for you, and if you want to show them that you love them, you should do something for them. These people tend to be very practical and down to earth.
  5. Physical Touch: People who are wired with this love language are huggers. They like hand-holding, arms around the shoulders, pats on the back, and little kisses on the cheek. It’s all about flesh on flesh. These folks don’t see the need for the concept of “personal space.”

Now,  as you might guess, these five love languages oftentimes overlap in the lives of individuals. For example, many people who value quality time also value physical touch. Likewise, many who value receiving gifts also value acts of service. This isn’t hard to understand.

And, yes, the difference between the sexes frequently comes into play in these matters. The stereotypical male will be high on acts of service while the stereotypical female will be high on quality time. Unfortunately, those two love languages don’t usually jive, and this communication gap has been a major contributor in the demise of many marriages. Think about a wife deciding that she wants to go for a walk with her husband, only to find that he is in the middle of changing the oil in her car.

While most people have traces of all the love languages, Dr. Chapman’s point is that each person majors on one or two. As for me, my two are Words of Affirmation and Acts of Service. If you want to show me that you love me, pay me a compliment or do something for me. Those are the things that register with me the most. Accordingly, if I pay you a compliment or do something for you, you should know that I care.

My wife, Tonya, can attest to the fact that I’m not much on quality time or physical touch. On the subject of walks, if you ever see her out for one while she holds hands with a man, you should assume that she’s having an affair. It’s either that or I’ve done something really, really bad and am trying to make up for it.

I’m not so much into receiving gifts, either. I’m normal enough to like birthday presents and Christmas packages, but I don’t fly mad if I don’t get them. My mind just doesn’t think that way.

If you have trouble determining what your particular love languages are, here are three questions that can help you decide:

  • If you get a birthday card in the mail, are you more touched by the card itself or the monetary gift inside? The sending of the card speaks to acts of service. The monetary gift speaks to receiving gifts.
  • If your father or mother gives you a big hug and says, “You did a great job,” are you more touched by the hug or the compliment? The hug speaks to physical touch. The compliment speaks to words of affirmation.
  • If you and another person spend the day on a certain project, are you more touched by the fact that the job got done or by the fact that you got to spend all those hours around that person? The finishing of the job speaks to acts of service. The hours spent on the job speak to quality time.

In all my years of preaching on the subjects of marriage, parenting, and relationships in general, I’ve never run across anything better than Dr. Chapman’s five love languages. They really do get right down there where we live. It’s no wonder the books are so popular.

That’s why I encourage you right now to give yourself a quick mental checkup to identify your specific language or languages. Then talk to the people closest to you (your spouse, your children, your mother, your father, and your friends) and ask each of them what he or she feels is his or her language. This will enable you to most effectively show your love for them going forward. And if there is anything this world needs these days, it’s people effectively showing authentic love toward others.

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Something We Can Learn From the Harvey Weinstein Story

I can’t get on the internet these days without seeing a new article about the Harvey Weinstein scandal out in Hollywood. For those of you who might not know, Weinstein has been one of the most powerful men in the movie industry for over thirty years. He and his brother, Bob, co-founded the Miramax production company in 1979, and it quickly became one of the most successful in the movie business. I won’t cite Harvey Weinstein’s resume here, but the fact that Meryl Streep jokingly referred to him as “God” in accepting her 2012 Golden Globe award for her role in The Iron Lady will give you a pretty good idea about Weinstein’s clout.

But that clout is now gone. Last week, The New York Times published an expose in which a number of women, including actress Ashley Judd, accused Weinstein of sexual harassment. A few days later, The New Yorker magazine ran an article, written by Ronan Farrow (the son of Woody Allen and Mia Farrow), in which he contended that Weinstein had sexually harassed or sexually assaulted thirteen women, and had raped three of them. In a followup article the same day, The New York Times cited Angelina Jolie and Gwyneth Paltrow among many actresses who had reportedly had Weinstein make unwanted sexual advances toward them.

In the wake of all these allegations, Weinstein has been fired as co-chairman of The Weinstein Company, and his wife, Georgina Chapman, has announced her intentions to divorce him. It’s even reached the point where Democratic politicians who have accepted donations from Weinstein over the years are now being pressured to return the money. Rarely has the public seen such a swift and complete fall from grace.

Needless to say, a lot of people are writing about Harvey Weinstein today, but I just want to hone in on one fundamental fact that is now bubbling up out of this whole wretched mess. That fact is: Many of the major players in Hollywood — actors, directors, producers, etc. — KNEW about Weinstein for years but kept their mouths shut for fear their careers would be damaged by going public about him. As it turns out, a whole bunch of those Hollywood types who are so good at pushing their moralistic views onto us regular folks aren’t nearly as morally principled as they like to believe. When it comes to their careers, their fame, and their money, they are perfectly willing to look the other way rather than play the role of whistleblower. I think this is why the Weinstein scandal has hit them so hard. It’s laid their hypocrisy bare.

However, before you throw any rocks at the house of Hollywood, you’d do well to examine your own and make sure that it isn’t made of glass. What I mean is, do you have the moral backbone and courage to denounce sin where you find it? What if that denouncing costs you your job? What if it costs you money? What if it costs you family? What if it costs you friends? What if it makes you an outsider in an insider world?

You say, “Oh, I can handle all that.” Okay, then let’s talk about your family. What if your whistleblowing gets your spouse either alienated at work or fired? What if it costs your child playing time or a spot on the team? What if your family has to move because the blowback becomes so intense? Tell me, can you handle all of that? Really?

And here’s the ultimate question for you: If you know going in that your whistleblowing won’t result in the problem getting fixed, will you still speak out simply because it’s the right thing to do? Ah, now we’re getting down to it. Where does logic trump moral outrage? At what point does common sense silence the prophet’s voice? When does personal security take precedent over fixing the world’s problems? Summing it all up, what is your price for going along to get along?

In Ephesians 5:11, the Bible tells us Christians to have no fellowship with (take no part in, have nothing to do with, don’t participate in) the unfruitful works of darkness. While, admittedly, we oftentimes fail at living up to even this first part of the verse, it’s the verse’s second part that really puts us to shame. There we are told that we should expose (rebuke) those works of darkness. That certainly takes the matter to a whole other level, doesn’t it? Staying away from a work of darkness is one thing; raising your voice against it is quite another.

As for the Bible’s record, there are instances where the whistleblower (the rebuker, the exposer) is treated kindly and his message is accepted in the spirit in which it is given. For example, King David responded appreciatively to the prophet Nathan’s rebuke (2 Samuel 12:1-15), and Peter responded rightly to Paul’s (Galatians 2:11-21). Then again, there are other instances where things don’t end well for the whistleblower. Herod Antipas had John the Baptist beheaded (Matthew 14:1-12), the Sanhedrin Council stoned Stephen to death (Acts 7:51-60), and the Jews/Romans crucified Jesus.

What the Harvey Weinstein story teaches us is that whistleblowing (rebuking, exposing) is rare. Sure, everyone is jumping off the Weinstein train now, but that’s only because it has derailed. For the past thirty years, as Weinstein was making or breaking careers and winning awards, there certainly wasn’t anything being publicly said or done about his sexual misconduct. But now that the story has broken, A-list actors are taking to their Twitter accounts to issue vanilla, politically correct statements about how appalled they are at his transgressions. And while I don’t doubt that most of them are genuinely appalled, it’s obvious they weren’t appalled enough to speak up until it was safe to do so. You see, that’s the problem with being a whistleblower. If you wait until it’s safe to blow your whistle, you’ll find that it doesn’t work.

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Do It Now

Here’s a true story. A church in San Antonio, Texas, committed to a fundraising drive to build a new building. On a chosen Sunday morning, a special offering would be taken up to help toward reaching the monetary goal. Each member was asked to pray about how much he or she should give.

A couple of days after that announcement was made, a middle-aged man stopped by the pastor’s office. He told the pastor that he and his wife had been praying about what they should give and had decided on the amount of $10,000. The pastor was astonished because he knew this couple well enough to know they weren’t wealthy, and he was even more astonished when the man reached into his pocket, pulled out the money, and laid it on the desk. Evidently the fellow had just come from the bank, where he had arranged for the money.

When the pastor pointed out that the couple might be overextending themselves by donating such a large amount, the man explained the incalculable influence the church had exerted upon the couple’s life. Both the husband and the wife had been raised in the church. They had met in the church. They had been baptized in the church. They had been married in the church. Their children had been raised in the church, and now their grandchildren were attending there as well. Because of all this, the couple felt they couldn’t give any less than $10,000.

After hearing that, the pastor graciously accepted the gift, but he did ask the man to keep the money and personally place it into the offering plate the designated Sunday morning. The man, however, wouldn’t agree to that. He said, “Pastor, we already know what God wants us to do — so we want to do it right now while we can. I do expect to be here that Sunday morning, but I believe the time for a fellow to do anything is just as soon as he knows what God wants him to.”

A couple of days later a wealthy local businessman learned that he had to make a trip to California. Since he had a four-passenger plane, he called three of his friends and asked if they would like to join him, free of charge, on the trip. The man who gave the $10,000 was one of the friends. For some reason, the group decided to fly to Denver, Colorado, first, where they landed at Stapleton Airport. The next morning they filed a flight plan for Los Angeles and took off. After that the plane was never seen again. It must have gone down somewhere in the Rocky Mountains.

On the Sunday the building-drive offering was taken up, the widow, surrounded by her children and grandchildren, sat in the church sanctuary and watched the pastor place the $10,000 into the plate. She was thankful her husband hadn’t waited to donate the money. If he had he wouldn’t have gotten to experience the earthly joy of personally donating to that offering.

When God told Abraham to take his son, Isaac, to the land of Moriah and sacrifice him there, Abraham rose early the next morning and began the journey (Genesis 22:1-3). When the Holy Spirit told Philip to overtake the Ethiopian eunuch’s chariot, Philip ran to do it (Acts 8:29-30). This is the “DO IT NOW” mentality, and it’s something that is sorely lacking among Christians. So, Christian, I’ve got two simple questions for you: #1: Has God told you to do something? And #2: Have you done it yet?

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God’s Perspective

A man was having a particularly intimate conversation with God by way of prayer. The man asked, “God, how long is a million years to you?” God answered, “It’s just like a second of time for you, My child.” The man asked, “And what is a million dollars to you, Lord?” God answered, “To Me, it’s just like a single penny.” The man asked, “Then Lord, will you give me one of your pennies?” God answered, “Certainly. In a second.”

Perspective. It means everything, doesn’t it? And God’s perspective on just about everything is vastly different than ours. That’s why Isaiah 55:8-9 says:

“For My thoughts are not your thoughts, Nor are My ways,” says the Lord. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, So are My ways higher than your ways, And My thoughts than your thoughts.” (N.K.J.V.)

I don’t know what you are going through right now, but let me encourage you to stop seeing it through your limited perspective and start seeing it through God’s eternal one. For example, are you currently enjoying a season of good times when everything is going well for you? Then, perhaps, God is allowing you to take His test of prosperity (which is a difficult test to pass, by the way). Are you dealing with some awful situation and you can’t understand why God hasn’t fixed it yet? Then, perhaps, He is building patience and perseverance into you. Are you facing something that looks completely and utterly hopeless? Then, perhaps, He is enrolling you in His course on faith. On and on I could go with the hypothetical situations and God’s perspective on them, but you get the idea.

One of the best things you can do in the midst of ANY situation — whether it be good or bad, pleasant or unpleasant, pleasing or trying — is ask God to help you see it from His perspective. And when He provides that insight, what you’ll probably find is that He has a different agenda than you do for the situation. In other words, you might be trying to get one thing out of the situation, while He is trying to give you something completely different through it. Speaking from personal experience, I can’t tell you how many times He and I have been on different agendas regarding what was going on in my life. I was zigging while He was zagging.

So, wherever this post finds you, put it to use regarding your circumstance. Yes, God’s thoughts are not your thoughts and His ways are not your ways, but that doesn’t mean that His thoughts and ways are not as good as yours. To the contrary, His thoughts and ways are higher than yours, as high as the heavens are from the earth. That means that His thoughts and ways can be trusted even when they don’t make any sense to you. Like I said, you just have to start seeing things from His perspective, not yours.

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