Why Are Some Lives Spared While Others Aren’t?

The name R.G. Lee is on the short list of the most famous preachers America ever produced. Most notably among his various pastorates, he served as the pastor of Bellevue Baptist Church in Memphis, Tennessee, for over thirty years. While there he also served four times as President of the Tennessee Baptist Convention and three times as President of the Southern Baptist Convention. It is estimated that he preached his signature sermon, Payday Someday, over 1,200 times in places all across America and in other parts of the world.

But the world almost missed out completely on Dr. Lee’s legendary life and ministry because he had a brush with death when he was just six years old. Lee told the story in his foreword to Jerry Spencer’s book, Almost Persuaded to be a Liberal, and I’ll let him tell it in his own words here by offering it verbatim from that foreword. Lee wrote:

My father, after being a share cropper for years, was selected by Mr. Eli Springs, a wealthy man from Charlotte, North Carolina, to be superintendent of the Springs’ farm on which was the Springs’ mansion built by slave labor in 1804. On that farm was a big barn. One day my mother said to me, “Bobby, I think there is an old Dominique hen on her nest under the barn. Please crawl up under the barn and put your hand under her and see if she has eggs under her body.”

Obediently, with the purpose of pleasing my mother, I crawled under the barn, the floor of which was fifteen or eighteen inches above the ground. When I had crawled under a few feet, I heard a sinister rattle. I thought it must be a rattlesnake because I had seen the farmhands kill rattlesnakes on occasion and had heard rattlesnakes “buzz their buttons.”

I crawled up a little further. The rattle, more strident and a bit louder, I heard again. Then, a frightened little boy, I went out backwards much faster than I had done forwards. I ran to the house, where my mother was in a rocker on the white-columned porch. I said, with excitement, “Mama! Mama! There is a rattlesnake under the barn!” My mother, doubt in her voice, said, “Oh, Honey, you must be mistaken.” I said, “No, ma’am, I heard it rattle!”

My mother called old Boss, an old Bloodhound that belonged to the owner of the farm, and she and Boss went with me to the barn. I showed Mother the spot where I had crawled under the barn. “Sic ’em, Boss,” she said. The old hound went up under the barn. There was a strange medley of sounds: old Boss growling and the rattlesnake rattling his tail buttons. Out from under the barn came faithful old Boss growling and chewing a hissing, writhing rattlesnake. There was a hoe leaning against the barn. Mother picked up the hoe and chopped at the snake until it was dead.

Ole Boss went right back, and the same growlings and hissings were heard. Boss brought forth the second rattlesnake, larger and hissing more violently than the first. Mother used the hoe, and Boss used his mouth and jaws. Soon the second rattlesnake was dead.

My mother picked me up, carried me back in her arms to the front porch. Then she sat down in the huge rocking chair, pulled her apron up over me and hugged me close — and she said over and over again, “Thank you, Lord. Thank you.” She was thanking God that the snakes had not bitten me. I came that close to dying a terrible death.

In that foreword, Lee uses his life-threatening experience as an analogy of how Jerry Spencer, the book’s author, came perilously close to being bitten by the poison of liberalism only to be rescued by a belief in the divine inspiration of the Bible. For the purpose of this post, however, I want to use Lee’s experience as an illustration of how God sometimes spares lives while other times He doesn’t. I truly believe that it was God who protected R.G. Lee’s life under that barn that day. He protected it because, as Jesus said of the apostle Paul even before Paul became a Christian, Lee was “a chosen vessel” of His to proclaim the gospel to the masses (Acts 9:15).

Let me be clear, though: I don’t pretend to fully understand the providence of God in regards to when He chooses to spare a life from a life-threatening situation and when He chooses to let the death occur. There is a mystery to that providence, a mystery that is shrouded in a foggy darkness. The fact is that for every R.G. Lee whose life was spared there are scores of others whose lives weren’t. And we wouldn’t be human if we didn’t stand over the gravesite of such a death and ask, “Why, God?”

Unfortunately for us, the answer to that question will elude us as long as we are in this world. Some things we simply have to leave with God and trust that He knows best and never makes a mistake. I realize that it’s not adequate comfort to a grieving loved one, but in such times Isaiah 55:8-9 really is the best answer we can give. And so, I’ll offer it as the close to this post:

“For My thoughts are not your thoughts, Nor are your ways My ways,” says the Lord. “For as the heavens are higher than the earth, So are my ways higher than your ways, And My thoughts than your thoughts.” (N.K.J.V.)

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The Problem with Trying to Please Everybody

Enoch walked faithfully with God; then he was no more, because God took him away. (Genesis 5:24, N.I.V.)

By faith Enoch was taken from this life, so that he did not experience death. “He could not be found, because God had taken him away.” For before he was taken, he was commended as one who pleased God. (Hebrews 11:5, N.I.V., emphasis mine)

Aesop’s Fables is an ancient collection of fables, each one teaching a life lesson. One of the fables involves a father, his son, and their donkey. The fable is a bit outlandish in the story it tells, but the lesson imparted is a timeless one that we’d do well to revisit today.

As the fable goes, a father, a son, and their donkey were walking down the road toward the market. Everything was fine until some people passed by them and said, “You fools, what is a donkey for but to ride upon?” So, the father placed the son upon the donkey and continued down the road.

A little while later some more people passed by and said, “Look at that lazy youngster. He lets his father walk while he rides.” Embarrassed by the criticism, the father and the son switched places and continued down the road.

They hadn’t gone too far, though, before some more people passed by and said, “Shame on that lazy father for riding while his son has to trudge alongside.” Consequently, the father had the son climb onto the donkey with him. Then they continued down the road.

When they reached town, some of the townspeople pointed at them and jeered. When the father stopped the donkey and asked why people were pointing and jeering, the answer he received was, “Aren’t you two ashamed of yourself for loading down that poor donkey?” Embarrassed again the father and son dismounted the donkey and tried to figure out the best way to proceed.

Since they had tried every other way and been criticized for each one, they hit upon the idea of cutting down a pole, tying the donkey’s feet to it, and carrying the pole across their shoulders, with the donkey hanging upside down in suspension between them. It took some doing to get all that accomplished, but they finally got it done and started making their way onward to the town’s market.

Again, however, onlookers laughed at them. But by now both father and son had decided that they weren’t going to do any more changing. So, this time they ignored all the laughter and continued toward the market.

Unfortunately, when they got to the bridge that lay just before the market, the donkey worked one of its feet loose from the pole and started kicking wildly. All the commotion caused the son to drop his end of the pole, and as a result of the ensuing struggle the donkey (with three of its feet still tied to the pole) went over the side of the bridge and drowned. As the father and son stood there looking down into the water, watching their poor animal succumb to its death, they heard the critical voice of an old man who had followed them through town. The old man said to them, “That will teach you.”

Okay, boys and girls, what is the life lesson of this fable? The Aesop’s Fable puts it this way: PLEASE ALL, AND YOU WILL PLEASE NONE. As for us today, we might word it: YOU CAN’T PLEASE EVERYBODY, SO DON’T EVEN BOTHER TRYING.

In Genesis 5:24, the Bible tells us that Enoch walked with God and God took him from this earth by some means other than death. Hebrews 11:5 then adds some commentary on the event by saying that Enoch was a man who pleased God. You see, Enoch understood how to live. The priority of his life was to please God.

All I can say to that is, “May Enoch’s tribe increase!” The goal of your life and my life should be simply to please God. If we can do that, what our critics have to say won’t matter. So, with this in mind, let’s stop worrying so much about other people’s opinions and expectations of us, and let’s strive to focus exclusively upon doing God’s will in every given situation. If we’ll do that, we shouldn’t be losing any donkeys to drowning.

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“Christian Verses” Podcast: John 16:33

The verse for this week’s “Christian Verses” podcast is John 16:33, as Malcolm and I discuss how that verse plays out in the life of the Christian. Why don’t more Christians have the inner peace that Jesus promised? It’s because the world keeps throwing tribulation at us. Unfortunately, rather than having deep-settled inner peace, many Christians today are even reaching the point of outright depression. These issues, and some others, provide the heart of this week’s discussion. Here’s the link:

https://soundcloud.com/user-185243867/being-an-overcomercv2018018

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It’s Just Grass

Howard Buchanan went to be with the Lord several years ago, but Tonya and I had the pleasure of knowing him as our neighbor for approximately ten years. Howard was a Baptist preacher and a very good man. He was also laid back and slow moving.

The house Tonya and I lived in during those days had a long, gravel driveway that ran right past Howard’s house. That driveway had a lot of ditch line, and I was constantly mowing that ditch line’s grass with my weed eater to keep everything looking nice. It was a major battle every spring and summer. Tonya thought I was crazy for worrying so much about that grass, but I was in full “king of my castle” mode back then and wanted the place to look nice.

One day I was talking with Howard and somehow the subject of the ditch line’s grass came up. Actually, it came up because I brought it up, but that’s beside the point. Anyway, after listening to me rant and rave about the amount of work it took to keep that grass mowed, Howard looked at me with a wry smile and a twinkle in his eye and offered the following assessment: “It’s just grass.”

So there it was, a perfect summation that placed the problem in its appropriate universal perspective. Three words. Just three little words. But those words served as a friendly rebuke to me, one that I’ve never forgotten.

In the days since then there have been other times when I’ve faded into obsession over something that wasn’t worthy of such time and energy. And more than once Tonya has looked and me and said with a grin, “It’s just grass, Russell.” That’s her way of saying, “I think you’re acting a little nuts over this.” Each time she utters that phrase my mind goes back to Howard and that ditch line.

There’s a cutesy saying that says, “Don’t sweat the small stuff, and everything is small stuff.” Unfortunately, however, that saying is a lie. If life has taught us nothing else, it has taught us that some stuff truly is major. Ah, but let’s admit that a great deal of life really doesn’t amount to much more than grass in a ditch line, and such things are only as big a deal as we choose to make them.

Perhaps, right now, you find yourself obsessing over something. If that’s the case, you need to ask yourself, “Is this thing truly worthy of my obsession or is it just grass?” Like I said, some stuff in life is major, genuinely major, and if you are dealing with something from that category I certainly don’t mean to minimize your problem. No, the part of life I’m talking about houses all of that minutia that will ultimately amount to nothing more than grass. You see, if that’s the category of stuff that is driving you crazy lately, you should consider yourself rebuked. The rebuke comes courtesy of a wise old preacher named Howard Buchanan who is now in heaven not worrying about anything, and it comes complete with a wry smile and a twinkle in the eye. And it’s my sincere hope that you will accept it in the attitude in which it is offered and apply as much of it as is needed.

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The Truth About Church

Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us, to Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus to all generations, forever and ever. Amen. (Ephesians 3:20-21, N.K.J.V., emphasis mine)

One day a man called a pastor to say he wanted to join the pastor’s church. However, the man was quick to point out that he didn’t want to attend services, study the Bible, pray, visit, evangelize, give, or serve in any way. He told the pastor, “I just want to be able to truthfully say that I’m a member of a church. That will help my reputation in my business, and it will also give me a good comeback when someone invites me to attend their church.”

The pastor replied, “I understand, but I really don’t believe that our church is the one for you. There’s a church across town that will suit your needs perfectly. Let me give you its address.” The pastor then gave the man the address, and the conversation was ended.

Eagerly the man jumped into his car and drove to the address. There at the site stood an abandoned church building that was boarded up and ready for demolition. As the man sat there in the car, he realized that he was staring at the logical outcome of his attitude toward church.

Most people are only interested in what they can get out church rather than what they can put into it. Everyone seems full of suggestions as to how church could be done better, but when it comes to actually putting in the necessary time, effort, and money to accomplish those things, the flock thins out in a hurry. And if you want to know what enough of that thinning out produces in the end, take a drive over to your local abandoned church building. That’s where you’ll find the result on full display.

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Go Get Your Ark

So David and all the house of Israel brought up the ark of the Lord with shouting and with the sound of the trumpet. (2 Samuel 6:15, N.K.J.V.)

David had a God-approved plan to make the city of Jerusalem not only the capital city of Israel but also its spiritual center. To accomplish that he needed to get the Ark of the Covenant moved into Jerusalem from its sitting location in the home of a man named Abinadab (1 Samuel 7:1). Abinadab lived at a place called Baale Judah (also known as Kirjath Jearim), and the Ark had been stationed in his home for approximately twenty years, with his son Eleazar serving as a priest (1 Samuel 7:2).

David assembled 30,000 of the choicest men in Israel, including some priests, and led the grand procession to Abinadab’s home to fetch the Ark (2 Samuel 6:1-2; 1 Chronicles 13:1-6). He also had a beautiful cart built upon which the Ark would sit as it was transported to Jerusalem (2 Samuel 6:3-4; 1 Chronicles 13:7). All seemed well as the Ark was removed from Abinadab’s home and loaded onto the cart, and soon the procession was making its way up the road to Jerusalem, with David and scores of other musicians playing worship music on an assortment of instruments (2 Samuel 6:5; 1 Chronicles 13:8)). Two of Abinadab’s descendants, Uzzah and Ahio, drove the cart, which was pulled by oxen (2 Samuel 6:3; 1 Chronicles 13:7).

But then suddenly and without warning tragedy struck. As the procession approached a site known as Nachon’s (Chidon’s) threshing floor, the oxen that were pulling the cart stumbled, and Uzzah instinctively reached back and took hold of the Ark to steady it (2 Samuel 6:6; 1 Chronicles 13:9). While that might have seemed like a logical thing to do, as soon as Uzzah touched the Ark God became angry and struck him dead (2 Samuel 6:7; 1 Chronicles 13:10).

The quick, tragic turn of events made David himself angry enough to rename the place “Perez Uzzah,” which means “Outburst Against Uzzah” (2 Samuel 6:8; 1 Chronicles 13:11). It also threw so much of a scare into him that he immediately shut down the entire procession and took the Ark instead to the nearby home of a man named Obed-Edom (2 Samuel 6:9-10; 1 Chronicles 13:12-13). There the Ark would remain for the next three months as God blessed Oded-Edom, his entire household, and all his possessions (2 Samuel 6:11; 1 Chronicles 13:14).

It was over the course of those three months that David figured out what he had done wrong. He had either forgotten or had never understood that God had specified in the Mosaic law that the Ark of the Covenant could only been moved by the Levitical family of Kohath (Numbers 3:30-31; 4:15; 7:9; 1 Chronicles 15:11-13), and even they could never touch it. If the Ark was moved, it was to be lifted by way of two poles that were inserted through rings on both sides of it. The Kohathites were to lift the poles onto their shoulders and walk the Ark to wherever it was being taken (Numbers 7:9; Numbers 15:2-).

Armed with this knowledge David was now truly ready to bring the Ark to Jerusalem. So, he put together a new procession, this one prominently featuring the heads of the priestly tribe of Levi, including specifically the members of the family of Kohath (1 Chronicles 15:1-13). He even had the Levites handpick the singers and musicians who would be included in the procession (1 Chronicles 15:16-24). To further assure that God was pleased with the transporting, David instructed the Kohathites who were carrying the Ark upon their shoulders to take six opening steps and then stop. He then offered an on-the-spot sacrifice of oxen and fatted sheep before the procession resumed its march (2 Samuel 6:13). This was a man who had learned that God’s work must be done in God’s way.

As you might guess, God was pleased with David’s second attempt and the Ark of the Covenant was successfully transported from the home of Obed-Edom to Jerusalem. As the procession made its way into the city, David danced, leaped, and whirled about in a godly ecstasy as he played music (2 Samuel 6:14-16;1 Chronicles 15:27-29). The Ark was then placed inside the tent that David had specially erected for it (2 Samuel 6:17; 1 Chronicles 16:1).

Now, by way of application to your life, let me ask you this: Did you once pursue a God-appointed goal only to have that goal somehow derailed? Perhaps the derailment was your fault or perhaps it was the fault of someone else. Either way the end result was your dream dying somewhere on the road between your Abinadab’s house and your Jerusalem. For that matter, is some Obed-Edom right now enjoying blessings that God originally intended for you? If this description fits you please hear what I’m about to say: Take the entire situation to God, let Him teach you what you need to know about it, and when the time is right GO GET YOUR ARK. 

You say, “But it’s been such a long time.” Well, I’m not disputing that. You say, “And right now there are so many roadblocks to it happening.” Okay, ask God to remove the roadblocks. You say, “I’m not even sure that the goal is still God’s will for my life.” Admittedly, that is a valid concern. That’s why you should begin your reexamination of your goal by asking God to teach you what His thoughts are concerning the situation as it stands right now.

I’ll concede that perhaps a goal that was once approved of God for an earlier season of your life has now vanished, never to return again. Sadly, such things happen in this world of heartbreak and loss. But on the other hand, maybe, just maybe, God is circling you back around to that goal, and He has had me write this post and you read it because He’s preparing you for that time when He’ll help you go get your Ark. That’s a possibility that, at least, merits considerable time in prayer on your part. After all, if God still has a potential blessing in play for you the last thing you want to do is give up on it prematurely. Think about it.

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“Christian Verses” Podcast: John 14:6

A recent survey conducted by Christianity Today found that 23% of surveyed pastors and 52% of surveyed church-goers did not strongly disagree with the idea that there is more than one path to God. In other words, only 77% of surveyed pastors and 48% of surveyed church-goers were unwavering that Jesus Christ is the only way to heaven. Welcome to “the church” of the 21st century.

Religious pluralism is the belief that completely different religions can all be valid at the same time, and that there are many paths to God. It goes much deeper than a Christian simply being tolerant of a Muslim, a Buddhist, a Jew, or a Hindu. It means that Christianity, Islam, Judaism, and Hinduism are all different roads that end at the same destination: God. Religious pluralism is summed up in this Opray Winfrey quote, made on her television show in 2008:

One of the mistakes that human beings make is to believe that there is only one way to live and we don’t accept that there are diverse ways of being in the world, that there are millions of ways to please God, and many ways, many paths to what you call God.

In this week’s podcast, Malcolm and I use Jesus’ words from John 14:6 to kick off our discussion. If any quote found in the Bible flatly contradicts the whole notion of religious pluralism, this one is it. So if you’ve got 30 minutes sometime, click on the link and listen in on our conversation. I think it will be a help to you. Here’s the link:

https://soundcloud.com/user-185243867/advancing-pluralismcv2018017

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Christian Principles for the Workplace

Slaves, obey your earthly masters in everything; and do it, not only when their eye is on you and to curry their favor, but with sincerity of heart and reverence for the Lord. Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving. (Colossians 3:22-24, N.I.V.)

Some scholars estimate that half the population of the Roman empire were slaves. Since the majority of these slaves were people Rome’s armies had conquered, some of the slaves came from backgrounds of education while others did not. This meant that some were allowed to do skilled labor while others were relegated to manual labor. For example, Rome’s slaves could work as common laborers for mines, farms, and vineyards or they could work as physicians, tutors, or accountants.

Interestingly, when Christianity began to sweep over the empire, scores of slaves became Christians. Just as interestingly, scores of slave owners became Christians. This set up a challenging dichotomy for all involved. Should the Christian slave remain in his/her slot in life or say, “I am free in Christ” and rebel? And what about the Christian slave owner? Should he release all his slaves from their service and in so doing deal himself a heavy financial loss, not to mention a crippling blow to the upkeep of his home, property, and business interests? These were monumental questions with which the early Christians wrestled.

The apostle Paul wrote under the inspiration of God and provided purposefully consistent counsel for the questions. That counsel went as follows:

  • Jesus placed Himself in the role of a slave when He laid aside His glory in heaven, came to the earth in the likeness of man, and died a sacrificial death on the cross. That proved that being a slave didn’t prohibit a person from being used greatly in God’s service. (Philippians 2:5-8)
  • Every Christian — whether that Christian was a slave or a free person — was an equal part of the body of Christ. (1 Corinthians 12: 12-13; Galatians 3:26-28)
  • Every Christian should think of himself or herself as being a slave to Jesus Christ. (Romans 1:1; Philippians 1:1; 1 Corinthians 7:22-23; Ephesians 6:9, Colossians 4:1)
  • Christian slaves should continue to show their masters honor and not talk back to them, so that the God of Christianity and His teachings wouldn’t be misrepresented and blasphemed. (Romans 13:7; 1 Timothy 6:1; Titus 2:9-10)
  • Christian slave owners should actually serve their Christian slaves rather than looking down on them. (1 Timothy 6:2)
  • Christian slaves should remain in their place, continue to obey their masters in all things, and do quality work in complete honesty, as if they were rendering the service to Jesus Himself rather than to the masters. (1 Corinthians 7:20-22; Ephesians 6:5-7; Colossians 3:22-23; Titus 2:9-10; 1 Peter 2:18-25)
  • Even if the Christian slave’s owner did not appreciate the slave’s quality work and reward the slave for it, Jesus would grant the slave eternal rewards. (Ephesians 6:8; Colossians 3:24)
  • Christian slave owners should treat their slaves well, giving them what was fair and not threatening them with punishment, knowing that their own Master (Jesus) was watching from heaven. (Ephesians 6:9; Colossians 4:1)

It can been said that by addressing the issue in this way, Paul accomplished two things. First, he kept the Christian slaves from throwing the entire empire into chaotic upheaval. Such an upheaval would have gotten Christianity labeled as the religion of rebellion, and that reputation would have trumped the fact that Christianity is all about submission (submission to Jesus Christ). Second, with Paul’s God-inspired counsel, he provided the seeds for slavery’s eventual downfall. You see, when a master has to start treating his slave with kindness and seeing himself as a servant to that slave, that takes away the sadistic allure of him viewing that slave as his property.

But how can we, as Christians today, apply all these ancient passages to our lives? We can do it by pulling out some divine principles concerning the workplace. Therefore, I’ll offer a list of those principles as a close to this post. Consider each one carefully:

  • Workplace Principle #1: We should understand that Jesus placed Himself in the role of a worker when He laid aside His glory in heaven, came to earth in the likeness of man, and did the work of God the Father. (see John 4:34; 5:36; 9:4; 17:4; 19:30)
  • Workplace Principle #2: We should understand that each Christian has equal standing in Christ and we are all part of one body, and that applies to any Christian coworkers we might have.
  • Workplace Principle #3: We should think of ourselves as being slaves to Jesus Christ and bring all areas of our lives, including the workplace, under His lordship.
  • Workplace Principle #4: In the workplace, we should render appropriate honor to our bosses and in so doing cultivate a good testimony as a follower of Christ.
  • Workplace Principle #5: In the workplace, we should always do the best job we can because we should see ourselves as doing our work for Jesus even more than for our employers.
  • Workplace Principle #6: We should always keep in mind that even if our quality work goes unappreciated at our place of employment, Jesus will reward us handsomely for it in eternity.
  • Workplace Principle #7: If God places us in a position of authority in the workplace, we should rule in humility and fairness, treat our workers well, and understand that a God-given role of authority is merely the God-given opportunity to be a servant to those over whom we rule.
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Building With the Right Materials

For no other foundation can anyone lay than that which is laid, which is Jesus Christ. Now if anyone builds on this foundation with gold, silver, precious stones, wood, hay, straw, each one’s work will become clear; for the Day will declare it, because it will be revealed by fire; and the fire will test each one’s work, of what sort it is. If anyone’s work which he has built on it endures, he will receive a reward. If anyone’s work is burned, he will suffer loss; but he himself will be saved, yet so as through fire. (1 Corinthians 3:11-15, N.K.J.V.)

The fact that Paul begins this passage by emphasizing that the foundation is Jesus Christ proves that these words are written to Christians. Only Christians have lives that are built upon that eternal foundation. But that common foundation is where the similarities end in the lives of Christians. Why? It’s because some Christians build wisely upon the foundation while others build foolishly upon it.

Building wisely upon the foundation of Christ equates to the Christian: serving Christ well, incorporating His teachings into daily affairs, living a life of personal holiness, being Christian salt and light in every situation, seeking God’s will regarding decisions, and being sensitive and obedient to the voice of the indwelling Holy Spirit. Such things make for what Paul describes as “gold,” “silver,” and “precious stones,” and they will stand the test of God’s judgment by fire in heaven. In so doing they will merit heavenly, eternal rewards for the Christian.

By way of contrast, building foolishly upon the foundation of Christ equates to the Christian: serving Christ poorly, ignoring His teachings in daily affairs, living a life of carnality and worldliness, failing to be Christian salt and light in every situation, refusing to seek God’s will regarding decisions, and being insensitive and disobedient to the voice of the indwelling Holy Spirit. Such things make for what Paul describes as “wood,” “hay,” and “straw,” and they will get burned into obliteration by God’s judgment of fire in heaven. In so doing they will fail to merit heavenly, eternal rewards for the Christian.

In light of this, Christian, you need to ask yourself: “What does the life I am building upon the foundation of Christ look like right now? Am I building with gold, silver, and precious stones? Or am I building with wood, hay, and straw?” Putting it another way, all that stuff that you are getting accomplished, how much of it will translate to heavenly rewards at the judgment seat of Christ (Romans 14:10-12; 2 Corinthians 5:10)? Be careful that you don’t find yourself standing before Christ with a bunch of wood, hay, and straw. Jesus won’t kick you out of heaven for such inferior building materials, but He certainly won’t reward you for them either.

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In-Laws & Outlaws

And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read that he who made them at the beginning, made them male and female; And he said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife, and they two shall be one flesh? Wherefore, they are no more two, but one flesh, What, therefore, God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. (Matthew 19:4-6, K.J.V.)

Adrian Rogers, the longtime pastor of Bellevue Baptist Church in Memphis, Tennessee, used to tell the story of the elderly couple who were making the trip from Memphis to Nashville. The husband’s hearing was fine, but he could barely see. The wife’s vision was fine, but she could barely hear. Consequently, she drove the car, and he communicated everything to her by leaning into her ear and speaking loudly.

Sometime during the trip, the couple pulled into a full-service gas station to get gas. (This was back in the days when such stations existed.) The attendant came out, looked at the wife in the driver’s seat, and asked, “Fill ‘er up?” Since the husband knew that she didn’t hear the question, he answered, “Yes.” The wife immediately turned to him and asked, “What did he say?” The husband leaned over to her right ear and answered loudly, “He asked, ‘Fill ‘er up?’ and I said, ‘Yes.'”

As the gas was filling into the tank, the attendant took advantage of the cut-off mechanism on the pump handle and walked around to the passenger door to strike up a friendly conversation with the husband. He soon found out, though, that even though the wife’s hearing was almost gone, she still liked to be informed. So, the conversation went as follows:

Attendant: “You have a nice car. What kind is it?”

Husband: “It’s a Chrysler.”

Wife (looking at the husband): “What did he say?”

Husband (leaning toward his wife’s ear): “He said we have a nice car and asked what kind it is. I told him it’s a Chrysler.”

Attendant: “Where are you folks headed?”

Husband: “We’re going to Nashville.”

Wife: “What did he say?”

Husband: “He asked where we’re headed. I told him we’re going to Nashville.”

Attendant: “Where are you from?”

Husband: “We’re from Memphis.”

Wife: “What did he say?”

Husband: “He wanted to know where we’re from. I told him we’re from Memphis.”

Attendant: “Memphis? Oh, I used to know a woman there. She was the meanest, hardest, bitterest, coldest woman I’ve ever known in my life.”

Wife: “What did he say?”

Husband: “He thinks he knows your sister.”

Sadly, there are many spouses who would agree with the old line, “I don’t have in-laws; I have outlaws.” And what is the cause of this unique problem in families? While there can be differing answers, one that is found on all the lists is: “My spouse has never really left home.” In other words, some married individuals still rate their parents or siblings ahead of their spouses when it comes to loyalty, devotion, time, energy, and (let’s just say it) LOVE.

In our text passage, Jesus references Genesis 2:24 and teaches that there are two things involved in marriage. First, there is the leaving, as the spouse leaves father and mother. Second, there is the cleaving, as the spouse cleaves to the other spouse. And make no mistake, there cannot be a thorough cleaving until there is a thorough leaving.

Unfortunately, however, this is where the breakdown so often occurs. Sometimes the parents, for whatever reason, simply won’t fully release their child to the new spouse. Other times the child, for whatever reason, won’t cut the umbilical cord from home. Sometimes the siblings won’t let go, and so they become a nuisance in the life of the newlyweds. Other times the newlywed husband or wife is the one who won’t properly let go of a brother or a sister. All of these situations create problems.

The bottom line is that God’s word places the marriage relationship above all other earthly relationships. While parents and siblings certainly play their roles in the grand scheme of life, everything changes once a person gets married. Even when a marriage produces a child, the relationship between that couple and that child never outranks the relationship the couple has between themselves. As Jesus said, the husband and wife become “one flesh” (Matthew 19:5). You see, that isn’t said regarding any other relationship on earth, and it means that once a person gets married, that relationship takes priority over all other relationships. The only exception, of course, is the relationship between the married person and Jesus Himself.

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