You’ve probably noticed that Christians have wildly different standards when it comes to matters of personal holiness. Sometimes these differences stem from nothing more than the generation gap. Other times they are created by the varying diversities of local cultures. And then there are those differences that arise from honest disagreements in regards to how certain Bible passages should be interpreted and applied.
It’s not my purpose here to identify every last difference in Christian standards of holiness and give you my take on it. I could write on that subject for the rest of my life and still not reach the bottom of that well. Instead, what I want to do is offer a simple test that any Christian can use when he or she is trying to come down on the right side of God-approved personal holiness. The test is one question and goes like this:
“If I was picking up Jesus in my car and taking Him with me, would I feel comfortable wearing what I’m wearing, looking like I’m looking, listening to what I’m listening to, talking like I’m talking, and taking Him to where I’m going?”
Now, I realize that this question isn’t 100% foolproof. The problem is that it is dependent upon each individual’s conscience and, unfortunately, a person’s conscience can be misinformed. (You should think of your conscience as being like a computer in that it only works as well as the information that is fed into it.)
For example, if you’ve been wrongly told that you are supposed to keep off a patch of grass, your conscience will cause you to feel bad if you step on that grass, even though the yard’s owner doesn’t actually care that you’ve stepped on his grass. Or, let’s say that you’ve been raised by parents who taught you that having the internet is a sin. Well, if that’s the case, then I guess your conscience is eating you alive right now as you sit there reading this blog post. Do you see my point about the problem with your conscience?
This problem really kicks in with some Christians in regards to a wrong interpretation, understanding, or application of a certain Bible passage. If these Christians fail to live up to that wrong interpretation, understanding, or application, their consciences will rack them with guilt which they will take to be conviction from the indwelling Holy Spirit. So, admittedly, how effectively our test question works for you depends upon how accurate the information is from which your conscience operates.
Nevertheless, with this understood, the question is still a good one. Let me explain why. In Romans 14:14, we learn that anything that you consider unclean for yourself is, in actuality, unclean for you even if it might not be unclean for someone else. Likewise, in Romans 14:23, we learn that if you can’t do something in complete faith that it isn’t sin, then it becomes sin to you even if isn’t sin for someone else. You see, these two verses apply even if your conscience is working from faulty information. They teach that God doesn’t want you to ever sense even a tinge of guilt or conviction, arising from whatever source, and then plow on ahead and do what you don’t feel right about doing.
So, in closing, let me encourage you to use our simple test question whenever you find yourself conflicted about some issue of personal holiness. And please, if you just can’t make yourself feel right about something, don’t ignore what’s going on inside you. Not only is it important for you to keep your conscience uploaded with accurate information, it’s equally as important that you pay attention to that conscience in matters of decision-making.

I don’t play with that type of thinking as I know Yeshua/Holy Spirit is in the room/car/store etc. with me always. Acting like He is not is just plain willful selfishness/foolishness and playing with hell’s fire.
When I rashly act on negative thoughts or feelings (not thinking/talking to Him before I act) then that’s when I get in the most trouble. I try to vent to Him before I act, which does help many times to get me to get calm, cool and collected (not always, though a good chunk of the time) and asking for prayer from from friends and family has helped much also.
I’m a great advocate for the where sin abounds, Grace much more abounds. But I’m also for not abusing that Grace, which I have been guilty of, and He has told me so. Sooo glad and grateful for His mercy, as He has had many good reason just to smite me down right where I stood. I guess I’m just too cute for Him to do that, or at least I would like to think so – lol. We are all the apples of His eye, so that does apply to anyone. I think always being willing to repent and say sorry is the key – and to go and sin no more. Though that is easier said than done, but brings us back to the being willing to repent thing. What a vicious circle and we know where that leads – that which I will to do, I don’t and that which I will to don’t do, I do…..nothing new under the sun…..Psalm 51….clean heart and right spirit please…Psalm 24…clean hands and pure heart receives blessings and righteousness…which brings us to the cross because that’s thee only place to get them…through His shed blood….
Anyway, I know I’m preaching to the choir, so I’ll end it….