I used my previous post to explain that Christians are the only people who can rightfully close their prayers with the words “in Jesus’ name.” Now, with this post, I want to offer a second fact about praying in Jesus’ name. That second fact is: To pray in Jesus’ name is to pray in submission to God’s will.
It is only fitting that praying in Jesus’ name would entail praying in submission to God’s will. After all, Jesus was the very embodiment of one who was submitted to the will of His heavenly Father. Consider the following passages. First, in John 6:38 He says:
For I have come down from heaven, not to do My own will, but the will of Him who sent Me. (N.K.J.V.)
Second, Matthew 26:39-44 tells us that Jesus prayed the same prayer three times in the garden of Gethsemane on the night of His arrest:
O My Father, if it is possible, let this cup pass from Me; nevertheless, not as I will, but as You will. (N.K.J.V.)
Third, Matthew 6:9-10 says that Jesus taught His followers to pray:
Our Father in heaven, hallowed be Your name. Your kingdom come. Your will be done. (N.K.J.V.)
Christian, you need to grasp the concept that prayer isn’t you sending God on an errand. It isn’t you getting your will done in heaven, either. It is much more about God getting His will done on earth. You see, your prayer time is a good time to die. I’m talking about you dying to your wants, wishes, aspirations, plans, and schemes. Don’t spend twenty minutes in prayer demanding that God grant all your requests and then have the audacity to close that prayer by tacking Jesus’ name onto the end of it. When Jesus hears such a prayer, He could very well say to Himself, “That’s not how I lived my life, and that’s certainly not how I prayed.”
I think each of us would do well to follow the example of the legendary evangelist, D.L Moody. He used to pray the following prayer:
Lord, if what I ask for does not please you, neither would it please me. My desires are put into your hands to be corrected. Strike the pen through every petition that I offer that is not right. And put in whatever I have omitted, even though I might not have desired it had I considered it.
Another good role model in this area would be the renowned preacher, Phillips Brooks. He wrote:
Every true prayer has its background and its foreground. The foreground of prayer is the intense, immediate desire for a certain blessing which seems to be absolutely necessary for the soul to have; the background of prayer is the quiet, earnest desire that the will of God, whatever it may be, should be done.
And so, Christian, the next time you use the words “in Jesus’ name” at the end of your prayer, I hope they will be in accord with the attitude you have evidenced in making your requests. If they aren’t, your best move would be to restart the prayer and do a more Christlike job making your requests. Yes, this will take some time. Even more than that, it will take some dying. But the end result will be that you will be able to use the words “in Jesus’ name” correctly, without them being mere lip service.

Amen.
I find two things that help me, and I need all the help I can get when it comes to my prayer life!
One, Christ makes intercession for us as He sits at the right hand of God (Romans 8:34), and two, the Holy Spirit makes intercession for us “with groanings which cannot be uttered.” (Romans 8:26)
And they both do it according to the will of God (8:27).
As Moody prayed we all (I) ought to pray, especially putting in whatever we (I) omitted.
Hmmm, I think you are too intellectualizing things here. True conversation involves many aspects, both good and bad. Now the “bad” or “negative” aspect is our perspective of things and never His actual actions. He does and says nothing but good and righteous deeds and words. I see He’s more concerned with motive and attitude versus our words, though there is power in His name, whatever one in whatever language we use.