Walking In Truth

In 3 John verse 3, the apostle John says of his spiritual children:

I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth.

A man was on trial for murder. All the circumstantial evidence strongly indicated his guilt, but the police hadn’t been able to find the corpse. That left some doubt as to whether the jury would convict him. But the man’s lawyer believed the jury was leaning towards doing just that. So he resorted to a clever trick.

In the lawyer’s closing argument, he said, “Ladies and gentlemen of the jury, I have a surprise for you all. Within one minute, the person presumed dead in this case will walk into this courtroom.” Then he looked down at his watch as if counting the seconds. Thirty seconds later he turned and started staring at the courtroom door. The jurors, somewhat stunned, all fixed their eyes on the door as well. But after the allotted time had passed, it became obvious that no one was walking through that door.

Finally the lawyer broke the silence by saying, “Actually, I made up the previous statement. But since each of you looked at the door with anticipation, I submit that you all have reasonable doubt in this case as to whether or not my client really killed anybody. And because of that I insist that you return a verdict of ‘not guilty.’” The jury then retired to deliberate.

But they came back in just a few minutes later and pronounced a verdict of “guilty.” The defense lawyer was outraged. Risking the ire of the judge, he shouted at them, “How could you do this? You must have had some doubt. I saw all of you stare at that door.” To that the jury foreman replied, “Yes, we did look. But your client didn’t.”

As clever as lawyers can be, not one of them is in Satan’s league when it comes to twisting and distorting the truth. Revelation 12:9 says that he “deceives the whole world.” Jesus said of him, “There is no truth in him” (John 8:44). Rest assured that if Satan was able to talk Eve out of the truth, he is able to deceive us too. We are no match for him. That is why we must make it a matter of regular prayer to ask the Lord to give us discernment and wisdom in regards to what is true and what isn’t.

If you haven’t done so today, take a moment right now and ask the Lord for such discernment and wisdom. Tell Him that you don’t want to believe anything that is a lie. Tell Him that you don’t want to be duped by Satan. Tell Him that you want to know the truth so that you can bring your life in line with it. After all, who wants to walk in a lie?

Troubling News

Last Thursday the National Center for Health Statistics released a report on sexual activity among teenagers. According to the report, 27% of young men and 29% of young women ages 15 to 24 say they’ve never had a sexual encounter. Those numbers were up slightly from the last such report, which was released in 2005. In that one, 22% of both sexes said they’d never had a sexual encounter.

What interested me most about last Thursday’s report was that my newspaper cited it under the heading “Drop in teen sex seen.” When I first saw that heading, I felt encouraged. But after reading the article what I really felt was discouragment. Rather than seeing the 27% and 29% of young adults who haven’t had a sexual encounter, I saw the 73% and 71% who HAVE.

Where did our train of raising our kids derail, catapult off the bridge, and tumble down into the gorge? How did we allow “virginity” to become such an undesirable, archaic lifestyle? When did the phrase “everybody’s doing it” become so predominantly true in regards to premarital sex? It’s sad, so sad.

Tell me, are you the parent of a child who is still a virgin? Then by all means make it one of your life goals to do everything within your power to help that child remain sexually pure before marriage! Not too long ago I had a very frank conversation with Ryan, my 13-year-old 8th grader. Since Ryan is so big into sports, I built my words around athletics. I said, “Son, if you make all-conference in three sports in high school and get a college scholarship to play ball at a Division I school, but engage in pre-marital sex, I will consider your high school years a failure. But, on the other hand, if you don’t do much of anything in high school but come out of it still a virgin, I will consider those years a success.”

You say, “That’s too extreme an attitude to take on the subject.” No, it isn’t. That’s the only kind of attitude that will save a kid from ending up on the wrong side of the statistics. Until we parents start truly emphasizing and prioritizing the matter of remaining a virgin before marriage, we’re going to keep getting the results we’ve been getting for years now. And I for one refuse to settle for less than God’s highest and best for my boys.

The Incredible Power of Showing Kindness

Dr. Caroline Geisel of the Kellogg Sanitarium in Battle Creek, Michigan tells the following story:

“There came to the building where we lived and worked the cutest little pup I ever saw. We all fell in love with him. He was so anxious to show us his appreciation of our affection that he wagged his tail with such enthusiasm that his whole body wagged along with it. He was the happiest pup I ever saw. We took him into the operating room, gave him an anesthetic, and probed the bone in one of his rear legs. The marrow was a beautiful pink, filled with red corpuscles. We carefully bound up the wound, and it healed almost overnight.

Then we passed the word around that no one was to smile at the pup or speak in a kind tone of voice for six weeks. We fed him as always, but nobody petted him or showed any affection. The poor little pup just wilted. He became the most forlorn little dog I ever saw. He crept into the dark corners, and his tail dragged the ground. We took him back to the operating room and examined the marrow in the same bone. It was a dark brownish color, and the red corupscles were very scarce. It took the wound a long time to heal, despite the fact that we showered all of our pent-up affection on the little puppy. He responded very slowly to our overtunes, and it took a long, long time to get him to wag his tail again. When his enthusiasm was finally restored, we took him again to the operating room and found the marrow in the bone was pink and beautiful again.”

If you want some Bible passages to go along with this story, here are a few from the book of Proverbs:

1. Proverbs 10:11: “The mouth of a righteous man is a well of life, but violence covers the mouth of the wicked.”

2. Proverbs 12:18: “There is one who speaks like the piercings of a sword, but the tongue of the wise promotes health.

3. Proverbs 15:4:” A wholesome tongue is a tree of life, but perverseness in it breaks the spirit.”

4. Proverbs 18:21: “Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit.”

And so, as you deal with others today, remember these verses and the story of the puppy. Show kindness and speak words of encouragement, peace, and health. Leave a room brighter than you found it. You just never know what effect you are having on someone’s marrow.

Sin’s Progression

In my last post, I outlined Psalm 1:1-3 under the title “Blessedness.” Now I’d like to narrow the microscope down onto one particular aspect of that passage and offer a word about sin’s progression. Hardened sinners don’t get that way overnight. Psalm 1:1 describes a systematic progression.

First, the person gets counsel from the ungodly and walks in that counsel. That gets him started in the wrong direction. That’s why the verse speaks of walking in the counsel of the ungodly.

Second, walking in that counsel leads the person out of the will of God and into the path of sinners. Once he is in that path of sin, he realizes that he enjoys the sin and decides to stand around for a while in that way. He isn’t in any big hurry to confess the sin, repent of it, and get right with God. He’s stopped walking. Now he’s standing.

Third, he ends up sitting down in a seat in the midst of the scornful (hardened, calloused sinners). To take a seat is to settle in for a lengthy stay. It is to become part of the group.

Let me use just one kind of sin as an example of the progression of sin. Let’s say that a man is considering having an affair. He’s having some trouble in his marriage, and there is a woman at work who seems to be just what he needs.

Rather than seeking out counsel from a godly person who knows the Bible and how to apply it to life, this man gets counsel from an ungodly buddy of his. The buddy has been married and divorced three times and had numerous affairs over the course of those marriages. The buddy says, “Go for it. Have the affair. Take it from me, you’ll be glad that you lived a little.” So, the man takes that ungodly counsel, walks in it, leaves the will of God, and has a one-night stand with that co-worker. What’s he doing? He is walking in the counsel of the ungodly.

Well, the man discovers that he enjoys that one night stand. He doesn’t get caught, and he finds that the sneaking around is sort of exciting. So he keeps the affair going. Once or twice a week he meets with his “other woman.” What’s he doing now? He is standing in the path of sinners. The rebellion against God is now deeper and more concrete.

Then, somewhere along the way, the man goes from standing in the path of sinners to sitting down in the seat of the scornful. He becomes cynical and hardened. In some illogical way, he’s angry at God because God didn’t give him a “happily ever after” marriage. He gets to the point where he mocks the things of God and despises anything remotely spiritual.

Do you see the progression of sin? First, there is the walking. Then there is the standing. Finally, there is the sitting.

And that is where the cycle tragically begins to repeat itself on another victim. Sticking with my example, when a young man naively asks the hardened, scornful sinner about getting married, he sarcastically answers, “Yeah, that’s what you need to do. Go and get married. Hook yourself up to that old ball and chain.” You see, that answer comes under the category “the counsel of the ungodly,” and the naive potential groom then has to make his own decision as to whether or not to walk in it and begin his own line of sin’s progression.

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